A simple test I use is to look at a person from behind. Assuming the hair doesn't give it away, I ask myself if the clothes reflect the sex. Usually they don't (e.g. the Gap look). Seeing that so often, I determined last year to revamp my wardrobe. As a result, today no one has trouble identifying me as a lady in my feminine skirts and dresses.
Wow, I didn't consider that. You nailed it, alright.
I could wear carpenter pants, a lumberjack shirt, and steel-toed boots, and no one would ever mistake me for a man from behind ... (LOL)
Well, there's the problem right there -- so many men have this irrational habit of shaving. Quit wasting time on that silly custom, and clothes are a complete non-issue.
Bless you.
Ummm... I assume High Heels go with all that feminine finery as well?