And she did her undergrad at Tulane, four states from home in New Orleans, of all places.
Actually she was 22 at the time. And very, very good-looking. That was just ~one~ of the little things she did. Oh, the pictures I could post ....
But without going all into the ~real~ issues she was playing out, I will tell you her exact words were that she "...could never have sex with an American black, the way the are...the way they act...it's just different outside America." Which was all really just background noise embedded the larger opera she was writing for herself. Or, really, that someone somewhere had written for her.
Like I said in the original post, there was definitely a racial element to it for her and I really think the point was more telling me about it than anything else. You had to be there, her background and her perception of me and our relationship and all.