I have gotten her to accept that the Catholic Church is the Church founded by Christ, however she thinks it has gone totally astray. Anyway, her major problem is the refusal to accept the idea of confessing to men i.e. Priests. Anyone have any advice?1. Be patient. Then,
At your first confession, do you try to go back and confess everything that you know you have done? How specific is it? Can I say "I have lusted after lots of women" or do I have to list every one? That could go on all night. LOL.Its called a general confession, and you can do one from time to time if you want (even after your first). You can be pretty general, its up to you. I dont list every time Ive committed each sin, like you say, it would take a while. Id list each category out, and probably focus more on the ones that have been a real hindrance to you. One other thought, if you can, its nice to schedule some time with the priest, rather than getting in a large line on Sat. afternoon. You probably want all the time you can get to go through these things, and its more relaxing if no one is waiting.
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Great advice. Thanks. The interesting thing is that I pretty much decided I was Catholic two weeks ago, and have been feeling great since. She sees it, that's for sure.