Please don't give up!!!
The move is to more "Historically Catholic" parishes. Go to the forums on Catholic Answers.
http://www.catholic.com
Ask there for a more orthodox parish. Someone will help you.
People are clamoring for the "Ole Tyme" Catholic parishes. Ours in MI has Latin and Greek, genuflecting, kneeling for communion by intinction, Corpus Christi, May Crowning and Benediction. Talk with your feet and move your money. Go where you feel comfortable. You don't have to go SSPX if you don't want to. Go Eastern Rite or FSSP.
The good parishes are out there. We just try to lay low so no one stops us. Mine has doubled the amount of families in three year and is still growing.
Thanks. I'll check out Catholic Answers. I'm sure there are others in my parish who feel the same way. Just have to find them. Maybe they've already found another, more traditional, parish.