“So they should add ‘no deep seated hetero tendencies’ as well, if they mean they don’t want people who can’t control their urges...”
Why?
A heterosexual orientation isn't intrinsically disordered. Heterosexual acts are not intrinsically evil.
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As I said, the Church has long stated that BEING a homosexual is not sinful. ACTING OUT on that orientation is sinful. This article says to me that the Church is taking a wholly new and IMHO inappropriate and uncharitable stand against people for what they ARE, and not for what they DO.