I always told my children that they were not mine, but God’s, and I was merely a vessel to help them on their way in His service. Jesus said that you cannot love family before Him, and we all strive to live that way. Blessings have abounded.
Quite a sane view; Jesus is the ultimate umpire in family affairs and all have authority to appeal to this. The result being blessing and peace. I did not have this in my first life. I have it in my second one. (Born again, not reincarnated of course.)