At my former church ( I have now returned to Catholicism) which was Methodist, the church leadership was as cruel as the parishioners about not including a girl with severe autism. I pushed to have her included in things and reached out to her. She was so excited that I put her on as a reader one Sunday. People were hypocrites and so was the drug addled pastor.
Most of us Christians have had issues with one or another individual church, pastor, or denomination. No need to throw ‘gorilla chips’ here.