It’s worse than that. You all need to watch the video there are several women there from other faiths in denial. This is unreal. These chicks are putting up blinders on their eyes.
Obviously if one contemplates Mary to any depth, considers her situation from a worldly POV, it would be horrendous to do whatever they did in those days. But still we don't know how God would deal with the woman.
Only the ancient churches and a few fundamentalist Protestant churches teach it is wrong. Some unbelievers think it is wrong; what they base it on I'm not sure but good they do.
Denial is the first and strongest hurdle and it can take decades to work through - if ever. Healing can only happen after the truth is dealt with.