I’d like to know exactly HOW I’m supposed to do that.
As a Lay Catholic I just went through an exercise with my Diocese over church closings and parish consolidation where it became abundantly clear to me that my opinions ain’t worth bupkis.
Understand your frustration and agree with your opinion. At the same time I’m just a “do the right thing and let God handle the details” kinda guy when it comes to the Magisterium these days. Joan of Arc is now one of my patron Saints! :)
You can support your friends and family. It also helps to get as informed as possible to the point of being an apologist. Catholic radio and cable is great for proper information.