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OSV.com ^ | 01-09-19 | Msgr. Charles Pope

Posted on 01/19/2019 11:33:40 AM PST by Salvation

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To: ChildOfThe60s
In cases like that, it's entirely possible that a legal separation of two spouses is absolutely necessary for all involved.

That's NOT what Msgr. Pope is talking about here. It's the remarriage that's the problem, not the "separation."

21 posted on 01/19/2019 1:06:18 PM PST by Alberta's Child ("In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey.")
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To: Salvation

Too bad the RCC has no moral authority to tell anyone what to do. Jimmy Breslin had it right...’The Church That Forgot Christ’....


22 posted on 01/19/2019 1:06:41 PM PST by barney10
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To: Popman

Did you get your marriage annulled?


23 posted on 01/19/2019 1:07:52 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: ChildOfThe60s
The abuses inflicted upon us by our mentally ill, alcoholic mother were a crime, not the divorce. Unless you have lived it, you have no right to judge it. NO ONE can ever tell me that ending that nightmare was wrong

The Church says that you may leave an abusive marriage for the safety of yourself and the children. It requires that you not marry again unless you have obtained an annulment.

24 posted on 01/19/2019 1:08:34 PM PST by pbear8 (the Lord is my light and my salvation)
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To: Flaming Conservative

The committing adultery is in the Bible. I would think it would be a belief of all Christians.


25 posted on 01/19/2019 1:09:04 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: MayflowerMadam

Thank you for your witness.


26 posted on 01/19/2019 1:10:10 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Salvation
Did your younger brother or you and your older brother ever seek out Al-Anon or any of the connected programs?

Would have been pointless. There was a great deal more to this than alcoholism. You did notice I said "mentally ill"? To the point it looked like demonic possession?

I did what needed to be done. As did my older brother. We got the hell out of there as soon as we got out of high school.

27 posted on 01/19/2019 1:13:07 PM PST by ChildOfThe60s (If you can remember the 60's....You weren't really there)
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To: Popman

“get back to me when you understand scripture”

Gee, my 18 years in a Baptist parsonage, and four years in Seminary ... I do recall:

“Luke 16:18 - Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.”

“Romans 7:2-3 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

“So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.”


28 posted on 01/19/2019 1:18:32 PM PST by MayflowerMadam
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To: TalBlack
Bullshit. That is a tactic to shut down debate.

You can't comprehend the living hell we could not escape. You are free to disagree, but you have no business saying "bullshit" about it. As soon as you used that term you disqualified yourself. You have absolutely no clue.

I'd happily make you 10 years old and force you to live for 6 months in the inescapable hell that I lived in for 18 years. Actually longer than that because she managed to drag us adult children into the crap for a couple of more years after that.

I will not respond to any more comments from you.

29 posted on 01/19/2019 1:22:07 PM PST by ChildOfThe60s (If you can remember the 60's....You weren't really there)
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To: Alberta's Child
That's NOT what Msgr. Pope is talking about here. It's the remarriage that's the problem, not the "separation."

We are not Catholic and I while I would not make light of a sincere Catholic's beliefs, I simply do not believe that and do not accept it.

30 posted on 01/19/2019 1:25:23 PM PST by ChildOfThe60s (If you can remember the 60's....You weren't really there)
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To: ChildOfThe60s

As soon as you used that term you disqualified yourself. You have absolutely no clue.

There you go again. Automatic disqualfication. Must be great to be the guy who decides who can speak and who can’t. Not put too fine a point on it but your position, taken twice, is utter self-serving bullshit.


31 posted on 01/19/2019 1:29:50 PM PST by TalBlack (It's hard to shoot people when they are shooting back at you...)
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To: pbear8
The Church says that you may leave an abusive marriage for the safety of yourself and the children. It requires that you not marry again unless you have obtained an annulment.

Well, I mentioned in a different response that we are not Catholic. So.....

However, I also mentioned that my father stayed in the marriage because he felt divorce was wrong, BUT also because it was his duty to protect us kids to the best of his ability and there was no way the courts in those days would have allowed him custody. Divorce would have been a far greater disaster than the marriage was for us as children - although that was difficult to understand at that time.

32 posted on 01/19/2019 1:32:37 PM PST by ChildOfThe60s (If you can remember the 60's....You weren't really there)
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To: Salvation

A true Christian may at times be lonely, but is never alone.


33 posted on 01/19/2019 1:33:14 PM PST by imardmd1 (Fiat Lux)
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To: Salvation

All people are fallible, mistake makers. Why is the one mistake of choosing
a bad spouse unforgivable?


34 posted on 01/19/2019 1:34:32 PM PST by Joe Bfstplk (How unfortunate tarring and feathering was abandoned.)
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To: Salvation

A second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.

L


35 posted on 01/19/2019 1:35:20 PM PST by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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To: Salvation
Jesus says if you divorce your wife and marry another, you commit adultery.

What if your wife divorces you? Also must note that Jesus walked the Earth under the Old Covenant - the New Covenant started when he arose from the dead.

36 posted on 01/19/2019 1:36:38 PM PST by trebb (Don't howl about illegal leeches while not donating to FR - it's hypocritical.)
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To: Salvation

Marriages, 1st bad, 2nd not so bad, 3rd great for 40+ yrs. Are these rules from clergy who never married? Did God say this all about 1 marriage or was it a living breathing Man who was quoted? I bet God didn’t have a wife. His mother probably never approved of any women he brought home. LOL, my mother thought she was God when I brought any girl home, until the last one. 1st Marriage, too soon to young, 2nd, rebound, third perfect match. #4? I think not, I’m done now. I never asked for it, I was an atomic age kid, grew up in the American Dream family time, wife,job, house 2 kids, but it took me 37 yrs to find a Mrs. Cleaver.


37 posted on 01/19/2019 1:37:54 PM PST by Bringbackthedraft (What is earned is treasured, what is free is worth what you paid for it.)
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To: Lurker

Do second marriage also end in divorce?


38 posted on 01/19/2019 1:38:32 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: TalBlack

Not to put too fine a point on it, but you might learn to discuss things without vulgarities. Doesn’t matter how correct you might be, a foul mouth does not lend weight to your opinions.

I don’t debate people who use ad hominum slurs and vulgarities. You’re typing this, that gives you thinking time to make a cogent argument without doing that. If you are incapable of doing so, your opinion is of no interest to me.


39 posted on 01/19/2019 1:41:54 PM PST by ChildOfThe60s (If you can remember the 60's....You weren't really there)
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To: Salvation

“Do second marriage also end in divorce?”

Zsa Zsa Gabor.

L


40 posted on 01/19/2019 1:43:04 PM PST by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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