'When I advise virginity, I pass no censure on marriage. . . for blame is allowed only in reference to a really bad act. But how can it attach to a Christian whose only reproach is, that he confines himself within a more modest sphere, and dares not aim at the highest efforts of virtue? I shall not, indeed, praise the vigor and energy of his courage; but neither shall I cast blame on timid reserve.
Our doctrine. . . proclaims marriage to be good, and virginity better.
. . . Marriage, which is good in itself, leads us to admire virginity, that is better, and outstrips it in dignity as much as the captain and the general are above the common soldier and sailor.'
St. John Chrysostom
22 posted on 02/14/2019 5:29:15 PM PST by Salvation
("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)