You must be one of the very few that does not know I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
That is the we i speak of.
polytheists
Since we do not force Father and Jesus into the same personage, yes they are both part of the Godhead. Jesus takes His direction from Father.
“””about spirit children in heaven with a spirit-Father and spirit-Mother in heaven”””
I said nothing about spirit parents, just spirit children.
I was thrown off when you said "Remember, we..." as if I shared these distinctive beliefs with you.
You also said, "Since we do not force Father and Jesus into the same personage..." I again didn't catch what you're talking about, since I don't even know anybody who "forces Jesus and the Father into the same personage." I have no idea what that even means.
Evidently as a Mormon you don't believe in the Trinity as understood by historic Christianity over the millennia, i.e. that the Trinity consists of three co-equal, co-eternal, Persons. Not entities jammed into one "personage."
I not sure this discussion is going to be fruitful unless we both stop making any assumptions about then other person's beliefs.
I don't have much time for a real comparison, but I have a good will toward you and wish you well.
I have to go make my lattice-top apple pies. It is quite a project.