I remember the day that part of The Lords Prayer hit me like a 2x4 to the head...
What we “get” for our sins on this earth is a very small fraction of what we deserve. Sometimes, part of what we “get” is doled out by our fellow man. Unjustly, it might appear to us. What does my fellow man know of my past sins? But when you take the higher view, forgiveness can and does flow.