Oops! Yeah, I meant that 'nice girls don't ask guys out'. Not that that's entirely true!
Speaking for myself, looks weren't high on my list of things I wanted in a husband. Enough that I didn't say "ugh, you're revolting" but an ordinary guy with everything I wanted would have beat a good-looking one who had nothing in common easily.
Now it happens that my husband is very good-looking but we met and did most of our courtship online (with a minimum of 600 miles between us. Ugh) and that wasn't a factor. Just a nice bonus.
The only guys I got creepy stalker vibes from were unattractive, yes. Mostly because they neglected their hygeine, dressed sloppily, and projected an air of un-attractiveness, rather than from any physical ugliness. But they were creepy stalkers. Especially the one from last year who apparently thought I was desperate enough to go out with him. I practically had to hit him over the head with my engagement ring before he got the message.