I have no sympathy for this person. One can’t pick and choose when to serve and when not to serve once the commitment is made. My son is a Navy lieutenant and is currently on the USS Kearsarge. He came up through the enlisted ranks and has been on sea duty for most of his career. Being away from his family for extended periods of time is difficult, but he serves without complaining and has the support of his family.
Thanks for lending us your son, and for his service. I pray for his safety and that of his shipmates.
Colonel, USAFR