Something else that you might consider, should be obvious.
If we can’t win this political battle of stopping marriage between two men, then how in the world do GOP candidates suddenly start winning campaigns based on passing all of these complicated laws and changing marriage entirely from something that humans recognize, into this chaos and collection of fantasies and contractual theories and total religious diversity, and all the other complexity that everyone is proposing?
How do you think people’s eyes will glaze over when all the complications regarding their divorces and child custody, and “civil” marriage law, and “religious” marriage law, and inter-religion marriages, and religious conversions, after marriage, and family court laws, and an endless version of contractual law, etc, etc, and the politicians arguing this in campaigns?
People are not interested in this chaos and the mind blowing suggestions that in the end, are unworkable anyway.
What your saying is, we’re screwed on this.