(1) If a male likes a specific female and shows interest in her, but the female is not interested in the male, there's a good possibility of this being considered "harassment".
(2) If a female likes a specific male and shows interest in him, but the male is not interested in the female, there's a good possibility of the make being labeled a sexist or, worse, be falsely accused of unwanted physical conduct with the female.
(3) If a transwoman (born male, plays a female) likes a specific male and shows interest in him, but the male is not interested in the transwoman, he is a bigot.
(4) If a gay male likes another specific male and shows interest in him, but the male is not interested in the gay male, he is homophobic.
(5) Only women/transwomen are allowed to say "no", and even if they said "yes", it might be changed to "no" later on depending on the outcome of the relationship.
I should add that the above list probably applies primarily to straight, while males. Black males can abuse women all they want, and they don't suffer the media backlash that white males do for just saying "no".
I believe you have figured it out. Now you can graduate re-education.
Excellent! By Jove, I think you’ve got it!