Agreed - I have a few homosexual acquaintances...some were horribly abused as children/adolescents and others struggled for years trying to be normal until finding out 9to their chagrin0 that they weren’t.
The abused ones are quirkier but doing their best to fit in and act and dress “normally”.
The others, having come to terms, look and act normal and hate the activists and those who “cater for these special people”.
As it happens, many of the same things that deceive people in wealthy, “advanced” nations today into thinking that God doesn’t exist and that they don’t need Jesus to be saved from Hell are what also convinces people that it’s okay to live in homosexuality. People think to not follow the world is to miss out on something, when really people who don’t follow God are the ones that miss out on fulfillment here and for eternity.
If a person is abused and has obtained a mental disorder concerning sexual persuasion, then that can be considered a medical problem. The man we are talking about, to my knowledge, did nothing but make a decision to do what he does as there has been no mention of a disorder. But he chose to keep it in the bedroom for his physical needs. This is one of the reasons I hate the word “openly.” He is an average citizen as far as the public knows just like everyone else. It is only in private that he is in a minority of the public with his lawful sexual choices/practices. It’s none of my business at that point.
rwood