You get used to it over time.
I knew a woman a few years ago. She was smart, but not a genius.
However, she had, if not, very close to a photographic memory.
She said one of the problems with such a memory, was always knowing you were right in disagreements with your spouse.
She said it was a real strain on the relationship.
She is what is known in scripture as a “Contentious woman” as Solomon spoke of
He said this, it it better to live as a cat on the roof or wander in the wilderness than to live with a contentious woman
He had almost 1000 Wives and concubines, I think he knew what he was talking about...
I pity those who attempt to have multiple “women” in their lives
Walkabout is the best cure, be you and the rest will follow
That is all
Choose...
But do so wisely lest you end up married to a Kamala Harris clone
It is not a problem at all. Unless it is of earth shattering importance just let it go. And 99.96% of the time it is foolishness that does not matter at all.
Sure when you are married you know exactly were to hit to hurt the most. That is why you DONT hit there.
It is not worth it.
This is the person you love most in the world. Be kind. Even if they are in the wrong.
Or bet them a cookie.
Then when they find out they were wrong you have cookies to share.
Nothing soothes a bruised ego like warm cookies.