The straight guy who is willing to give up sex and family just doesn’t exist anymore in very large numbers. These days the only type of man who is willing to give up the touch of a woman to live for the rest of their mortal life among a bunch of other men is oftentimes unsurprisingly a closeted gay man.
“....just doesn’t exist anymore in very large numbers....”
Then Holy Mother Church shrinks and gets by with fewer holy priests. Benedict predicted this.