Nonsense, go to a nightclub and watch how many men pass through, and how few exit with a female.
I second that. This notion of sex being “readily available” is BS.
Which is very true (used to work as a bouncer way back when).
What I saw in the late 1990’s was that the same group of guys would come in and out with a lot of different women. The majority of guys would never leave with one. So for a given bar, you would have may five or ten guys who would be picking up women, and thirty to forty who would never be able to.