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As a gay atheist, I want to see the church oppose same-sex marriage
The Spectator ^ | 5-27-15 | Matthew Parris

Posted on 05/30/2015 1:13:28 PM PDT by ReformationFan

Is there nobody of any intellectual stature left in our English church, or the Roman church, to frame the argument against same-sex marriage?

I see. So now we have the result of the Irish referendum on gay marriage, and now we’ve heard the Roman Catholic Church’s chastened response, we shall have to rewrite Exodus 32, which (you may remember) reports Moses’ (and God’s) furious reaction to the nude dancing and heretical worship of Moloch in the form of a golden calf: the Sin of the Calf in the Hebrew literature. Moses had come down from Mount Sinai bringing God’s commandments written on two tablets of stone.

‘And it came to pass, as soon as he came nigh unto the camp, that he saw the calf, and the dancing: and Moses’ anger waxed hot…

‘And he took the calf which they had made, and burnt it in the fire, and ground it to powder, and strawed it upon the water, and made the children of Israel drink of it.’

Let me have a crack at the revised version right away:

‘And it came to pass, as soon as he came nigh unto the camp, that he saw the Irish referendum’s huge majority for gay marriage, and the dancing: and Moses’ alarm was palpable…

‘And he took a copy of the Pink Paper and, flourishing it, said, “We have to stop and have a reality check, not move into denial of the realities.

‘”I appreciate how these naked revellers feel on this day. That they feel this is something that is enriching the way they live. I think it is a social revolution.

‘”We need to find a new language to connect with a whole generation of young people,” the prophet concluded; then, casting off his garments, Moses said, “Hey, lead me to the coolest gay bar in the camp.”’

Don’t laugh. With a couple of adjustments for updated circumstances, I am quoting the Archbishop of Dublin, Dr Diarmuid Martin, almost verbatim. The archbishop was responding last Sunday to Irish people’s endorsement of gay marriage by a margin of almost two to one.

Even as a (gay) atheist, I wince to see the philosophical mess that religious conservatives are making of their case. Is there nobody of any intellectual stature left in our English church, or the Roman church, to frame the argument against Christianity’s slide into just going with the flow of social and cultural change? Time was — even in my time — when there were quiet, understated, sometimes quite severe men of the cloth, often wearing bifocal spectacles, who could show us moral relativists a decent fight in that eternal debate. Now there’s only the emotional witness of the ranting evangelicals, most of them pretty dim. How I miss the fine minds of bishops like Joseph Butler, who remarked drily to John Wesley: ‘Sir, the pretending to extraordinary revelations, and gifts of the Holy Ghost, is an horrid thing, a very horrid thing.’

So, wearily and with a reluctance born of not even supporting the argument’s conclusion, let me restate the conservative Catholic’s only proper response to news such as that from Dublin last weekend. It is that 62 per cent in a referendum does not cause a sin in the eyes of God to cease to be a sin.

Can’t these Christians see that the moral basis of their faith cannot be sought in the pollsters’ arithmetic? What has the Irish referendum shown us? It is that a majority of people in the Republic of Ireland in 2015 do not agree with their church’s centuries-old doctrine that sexual relationships between two people of the same gender are a sin. Fine: we cannot doubt that finding. But can a preponderance of public opinion reverse the polarity between virtue and vice? Would it have occurred for a moment to Moses (let alone God) that he’d better defer to Moloch-worship because that’s what most of the Israelites wanted to do?

It must surely be implicit in the claim of any of the world’s great religions that on questions of morality, a majority may be wrong; but this should be vividly evident to Christians in particular: they need only consider the fate of their Messiah, and the persecution of adherents to the Early Church. ‘Blessed are ye when men shall revile you and persecute you,’ says Paul. What does the Archbishop of Dublin now have to say to the 743,300 people who voted to uphold what their priests taught them was God’s will? These, and not the gays, are now the reviled ones. Popular revulsion cannot make them wrong.

But maybe I’m the fool, the one who’s missing something. Maybe there’s a deeper truth behind Dr Martin’s willingness to bend to prevailing mood, a flexibility that echoes Pope Francis’s openness to change. Could it be that the reason for both men’s apparent lack of embarrassment at these convenient shifts is that on some half-conscious level neither ever really believed that morality was absolute or objective anyway — or supposed we really thought they were serious?

Have some of us, in short, made the mistake of taking the church at its word? Was it always, anyway, about going with the flow? Was it always secretly about imposing the morals of the majority on the minority — so all that is necessary is to discover which way the preponderance falls?

In which case, when we run out of male celibates we shall adjust a previously absolute doctrine to a more relaxed view of priestly duty. When we run short of male priests altogether (celibate or not) we shall review the teaching on women priests. When we run short of parishioners on their first marriage, we’ll think again about divorce. And when we find we cannot stop heterosexuals using contraceptives or homosexuals coupling, God’s will on these wickednesses will be found to have been revised.

Abortion next, I suppose. Here, too, shall I live to hear the divine ahem? Silly me. And there I was thinking they meant it. As so often in my life, I have missed the big celestial wink.


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"So, wearily and with a reluctance born of not even supporting the argument’s conclusion, let me restate the conservative Catholic’s only proper response to news such as that from Dublin last weekend. It is that 62 per cent in a referendum does not cause a sin in the eyes of God to cease to be a sin."

It saddens me that an atheist gets this point better than many who claim to be Christian.

1 posted on 05/30/2015 1:13:28 PM PDT by ReformationFan
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To: ReformationFan

No worries for the english gay atheists.

The muslims will make their case.

And they will do much more than pray for you.


2 posted on 05/30/2015 1:19:23 PM PDT by 2banana (My common ground with terrorists - they want to die for islam and we want to kill them)
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To: ReformationFan

Thanks for posting this, and yes that is the money quote.

I really, really don’t have much of a problem with gays (my own brother was gay and I knew he was gay before I knew what gay was, he’s gone to the next world so I could only guess at what he’d think of the recent goings on, he’d be close to our gentle author I imagine).

But what I do have a big, big problem with is saying that it’s “the same”. That’s some big fat denial of reality right there.


3 posted on 05/30/2015 1:22:00 PM PDT by jocon307
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To: ReformationFan
Okay, here is the secular angle — gays get a thrill out of inserting their private parts into what is no different than a sewer. Yes, a sewer with all of the nasties that make us very sick and even have the potential to kill us.

And gays want this this to be equated with normal heterosexual sex the way nature or God (take your pick) intended. Both God and if nature is your god agree on this point.

4 posted on 05/30/2015 1:22:03 PM PDT by dhs12345
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To: ReformationFan

100% in agreement. Just further evidence the great apostasy foretold right before the second coming of Christ is here.


5 posted on 05/30/2015 1:24:04 PM PDT by one Lord one faith one baptism
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To: ReformationFan

“t saddens me that an atheist gets this point better than many who claim to be Christian.”

He doesn’t “get it” rather he is crowing, strutting, sneering. He thinks it’s all over. He thinks he won and he is happily surprised that it was so easy.

Pray for the poor delusional bastard.


6 posted on 05/30/2015 1:24:24 PM PDT by TalBlack (Evil doesn't have a day job...)
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To: dhs12345

A sewer whose structure is designed specifically for one way traffic. The other way brings wonderful things like prolapse, collapse, tearing, ruptures...I won’t go on.


7 posted on 05/30/2015 1:25:46 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Joe 6-pack

ping


8 posted on 05/30/2015 1:32:20 PM PDT by definitelynotaliberal (I believe it ! He's alive! Sweet Jesus!)
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To: 2banana

if I was gay I’d be thinking who does most of the fighting for America. Straight white Christian males. I get to be gay in the open here without worrying about getting arrested or murdered by the government. Why would I want to ruin that? I don’t think they understand the threat that Islam is.


9 posted on 05/30/2015 1:35:31 PM PDT by dp0622
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10 posted on 05/30/2015 1:38:27 PM PDT by RedMDer (Keep Free Republic Alive with YOUR Donations!)
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To: ReformationFan

What this cold dead soul is doing is laughing at the modern Catholic Church which is no longer a standard reflecting God’s character but a wet-finger-in-the-wind reflection of decaying morality, of a dying species. The essay is a mocking, in typical dried, stale, sin-drenched dead soul style. Sadly, the writer is mocking the ONLY person Who can save this sexual degenerate atheist from his destined agonies. Such an one has no remorse for his mocking nor any respect for those pleading for his immortal soul. Apparently, Ireland is now grown fat with such dead souls.


11 posted on 05/30/2015 1:43:33 PM PDT by MHGinTN (Is it really all relative, Mister Einstein?)
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To: ReformationFan

The author must be a contributor to Gay Patriot, lol.


12 posted on 05/30/2015 1:45:46 PM PDT by miss marmelstein (Richard the Third: "I should like to drive away not only the Turks (moslims) but all my foes.")
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To: ReformationFan; Tax-chick; GregB; SumProVita; narses; bboop; SevenofNine; Ronaldus Magnus; tiki; ...

Catholic ping!


13 posted on 05/30/2015 1:47:42 PM PDT by NYer ("You are a puff of smoke that appears briefly and then disappears." James 4:14)
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To: ReformationFan

I see the church opposing gay marriage its just that their voices are censored by the msm and hollywood is pushing the gay agenda.

For instance COGIC doesn’t accept gay marriage and its bishops speak against it in church but you won’t see the media giving black ministers airtime on this issue.


14 posted on 05/30/2015 1:49:44 PM PDT by RginTN
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To: ReformationFan

IMHO! It’s really no big deal. Normal, non-***holes already know “gay marriage” is a freak show. You know something evil is afoot when even Pygmy leaders in the most remote jungles of the world are being forced to “support” that horse **** the “media” calls “same sex marriage”.


15 posted on 05/30/2015 1:51:37 PM PDT by FlingWingFlyer (Without God there would be no science.)
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To: ReformationFan
Interesting essay. For the record, there is no mention of Moloch in Exodus 32. Cows were worshipped in the Egyptian religion so maybe the golden calf was connected more with Egyptian religion than Canaanite religion.

How did the Israelite women have enough gold in their earrings for Aaron to make a golden calf? Was it hollow? They did "borrow" jewelry from the Egyptians before leaving Egypt so maybe that's where some of the gold came from.

16 posted on 05/30/2015 1:54:54 PM PDT by Verginius Rufus
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To: MHGinTN
What this cold dead soul is doing is laughing at the modern Catholic Church which is no longer a standard reflecting God’s character but a wet-finger-in-the-wind reflection of decaying morality, of a dying species.

Nah, the Catholic church is doing just fine and is not the government of Ireland. Their decision, while sad, reflected more the situation which allowed same sex unions, but allowed those unions no benefits whatsoever...If you're going to allow those unions, then give them the same advantages that marriage incurs...rights to speak for the other person, rights of inheritance, hospital visitation rights....that type of thing. This would have NEVER happened if that had been the case.

17 posted on 05/30/2015 2:03:12 PM PDT by terycarl (COMMON SENSE PREVAILS OVERALL)
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To: FlingWingFlyer

I will make two secularist argument that he cannot get around

1.
If a male person says: “I believe I am a dog but am trapped in a human body” and goes around on all fours, barks, pissing on fire hydrants and chasing cats society calls them psychotic.

Apply some Wittgensteinian logic to that situation which says I don’t like you is the same as saying I don’t like cabbage and revise the statement above to:

“I believe I am a female trapped in a male body” and then goes out and becomes a drag queen

If we as a society place the boy who believes he is a dog into counseling then we should place the boy who thinks he is a woman into counseling as well.

2.
Darwin said the purpose of life is to reproduce. This is the goal of every living thing. An organism that engages in sexual activity that cannot lead to reproduction in a normal sense is a violation of nature

Homosexuality is a mental disease


18 posted on 05/30/2015 2:05:08 PM PDT by Fai Mao (Genius at Large)
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To: ReformationFan

‘Blessed are ye when men shall revile you and persecute you’


19 posted on 05/30/2015 2:06:13 PM PDT by Jeff Chandler (Doctrine doesn't change. The trick is to find a way around it.)
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To: terycarl

IF the current (and probably last elected Pope) pope is any indication of the health of Cathoplicism, then I see a sickness growing. I’m not surprised when many Catholics cannot see it, forest and trees thingy yaknow. But I know born again Catholics who are grieving in their hearts for where Catholicism is being waltz off to.


20 posted on 05/30/2015 2:07:25 PM PDT by MHGinTN (Is it really all relative, Mister Einstein?)
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