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RFRA & My Wedding Ring (Terrific Essay)
First Things ^ | 4/7/2015 | Maureen Mullarkey

Posted on 04/15/2015 12:43:20 PM PDT by mojito

It has been some time since I gave thought to the day my soon-to-be husband and I bought our wedding rings. But the spectacle over RFRA—all the panting hysteria of a predatory media and toadying politicians aided by timorous clergy—brings it back with great clarity. And even greater poignancy.

Our wedding date was set. It was time to pick a ring. But where to look for one? How to shop? The two of us were young, broke, and scrappy. It would be some years yet before we could afford to pay retail. Besides, my intended was a combative shopper, born to hondel. He did not believe in fixed prices. There were only asking prices begging to be negotiated.

We started in Manhattan’s diamond district in the west Forties. No diamonds were on our shopping list. But 47th Street was a place to haggle, draw swords, dicker away until the doomed asking price dropped in exhaustion. His ring was easy. A plain gold band was all. It was mine that took hunting for. I wanted something chaste and spare, low keyed but rich with symbolism. No glitz. Modest but not severe. It had to be unembellished but eloquent—a sort of Grail for my ring finger.

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TOPICS: History; Religion; Society
KEYWORDS: homosexualagenda; indiana; mikepence; rfra
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1 posted on 04/15/2015 12:43:20 PM PDT by mojito
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To: mojito

Superb!! Thanks for posting.


2 posted on 04/15/2015 12:45:02 PM PDT by edwinland
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To: mojito

Very well written.


3 posted on 04/15/2015 12:48:57 PM PDT by Fido969
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To: mojito

Excellent.


4 posted on 04/15/2015 12:49:25 PM PDT by mykroar ("Never believe anything until it has been officially denied." - Otto von Bismarck)
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To: mojito

I am so wary of the left’s subversion of our language and our culture that I almost didn’t click the link, but I’m glad that I did.

Uncommon common sense in an increasingly nonsensical world.

Thanks.


5 posted on 04/15/2015 12:51:02 PM PDT by rockrr (Everything is different now...)
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To: mojito

Yes, very nice. Encourage all to read the full thing.


6 posted on 04/15/2015 12:54:45 PM PDT by kevkrom (I'm not an unreasonable man... well, actually, I am. But hear me out anyway.)
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To: mojito

I’m with this writer: if we don’t stand strong for what’s right now, we’ll never have the chance again.

I am disappointed that our Bishops have declined to resist this evil, but I sorry to say that I’m not surprised. They never excommunicated one politician for openly supporting and facilitating the murder of children, they resisted crushing the child abuse scandal and prosecuting the abusers when it was first exposed, they have aided and abetted the invasion of our country and its Balkanization - so what’s new?


7 posted on 04/15/2015 12:57:08 PM PDT by Chainmail (A simple rule of life: if you can be blamed, you're responsible.)
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To: mojito

Bump.


8 posted on 04/15/2015 1:01:21 PM PDT by gov_bean_ counter (Romans 1:22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools)
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To: mojito

Outstanding article.


9 posted on 04/15/2015 1:03:22 PM PDT by FateAmenableToChange
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To: mojito

” Read the whole thing. “

Thanks for the nudge. Worth it!


10 posted on 04/15/2015 1:29:15 PM PDT by stephenjohnbanker (My Batting Average( 1,000) (GOPe is that easy to read))
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Hate chime in...but read the whole thing. It’s beautifully written.


11 posted on 04/15/2015 3:19:07 PM PDT by pkmaine
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To: mojito
Lovely!

Thank you for posting it.

12 posted on 04/15/2015 3:24:30 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Proud Infidel, Gun Nut, Religious Fanatic and Freedom Fiend)
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To: pkmaine

Yes it was.


13 posted on 04/15/2015 3:25:07 PM PDT by stephenjohnbanker (My Batting Average( 1,000) (GOPe is that easy to read))
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To: stephenjohnbanker

That couple will last the test of time.


14 posted on 04/15/2015 3:25:54 PM PDT by stephenjohnbanker (My Batting Average( 1,000) (GOPe is that easy to read))
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To: mojito

bttt


15 posted on 04/15/2015 4:07:41 PM PDT by Liberty Valance (Keep a simple manner for a happy life :o)
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To: mojito

Great read!!!


16 posted on 04/15/2015 7:25:23 PM PDT by gov_bean_ counter (Romans 1:22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools)
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To: mojito
Great piece; but one small correction: what is thought of as Hebrew letters today (including by the vast majority of Jews) are actually Aramaic. The language is Hebrew, but the alphabet is not; ancient Hebrew text was dropped around 400 BC and Aramaic adopted since this was the common language spoken at the time by the Jews in the middle east. Jesus spoke Aramaic, not Hebrew. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paleo-Hebrew_alphabet
17 posted on 04/20/2015 5:46:20 PM PDT by Pharmboy (Democrats lie because they must.)
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