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Anyone Else Attend Family Thanksgiving Dinner Where Told to Keep All Prayers to Oneself?
vanity | 11/24/16 | vanity

Posted on 11/24/2016 7:27:35 PM PST by jobim

First time for me at a family gathering where the host
(Liberal), as we were standing ready to eat, at the time
when always somebody would suggest someone lead a prayer, said:
"Each person please say your own thanks or prayer if you choose to yourself."

Anybody else? Is this Trump backlash?


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KEYWORDS: noprayer; thanksgiving; vanity; wambulance
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To: bgill
At our house, framed on the wall right next to the dinner
table, is the quote about "As for me and my house, we will
serve the Lord"

I host Christmas & New Year both, and a bold Christian prayer always begins the feast.

It was the element of surprise - getting caught off guard.
That is why I think perhaps some on the Left have reached
their breaking point with Trump.
41 posted on 11/24/2016 9:11:01 PM PST by jobim
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To: jobim

63% of dems did not want to discuss politics this year. But they sure have loved mounting off for the past 16 years.


42 posted on 11/24/2016 9:11:09 PM PST by Terry Mross (This country will fail to exist in my lifetime. And I'm gettin' up there in age.)
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To: jobim

So sad to hear that, especially on this day.

You will find it fascinating to read three Thanksgiving proclamations: The original one, Washington’s, and, especially Lincoln’s (which was written in the midst of the War Between the States).

To paraphrase George Satayana: Those who have not learned from their history are doomed to repeat it.


43 posted on 11/24/2016 9:16:03 PM PST by QBFimi (It is not your responsibility to finish the work of perfecting the world... Tarfon)
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To: jobim

I dined with my Mormon niece and her family and friends. Prayers were offered and not just mumbled.

My niece mentioned her father’s sister, a union lawyer in Washington DC, that was going berzerk when GWB was president and we just realized she and her “bride” were going to have another round of insanity with Trump as president and we both grinned at the thought.

This was the woman who stopped buying Christmas presents for several years and blamed it on the horrors of the Bush presidency even though she makes over $100k/yr in her cushy labor union job.

I hate for anyone to feel tortured but this woman’s suffering almost always coincides with good news for the country. How she must have suffered Election Night to see the partial-birth abortion of the first woman president!!

HA! Delicious.


44 posted on 11/24/2016 9:19:23 PM PST by OrangeHoof (Get used to it - President Donald J. Trump)
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To: ealgeone

Thanksgiving was here with our children, grandchildren, wife’s sisters families, father in law, and my daughter’s friend and her children, and 2 boys we have helped out. I began with 2 of Calvin Coolidge statements I read about the other day and handed off to my father in law who reinforced the message. My son in law then read 2 Bible verses to further reinforce and then he prayed.

This was a first for doing more than just praying. This gathering was very close to all being on the same page even though not all supported Trump. None I know of supported Hillary. The day was beautiful, and was celebrated in thankfulness to God, a good meal, visiting, children laughing and playing, adults shooting guns and bows. Best day in a long time.


45 posted on 11/24/2016 9:36:33 PM PST by taterjay
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To: mrmeyer
Nope. Then again, no libs in my family.

Yep. Everyone prayed and had a great time. All of us are very conservative and all voted Trump.

Had a great time and am still stuffed to the gills from our wonderful Thanksgiving meal.

46 posted on 11/24/2016 9:52:54 PM PST by OldMissileer (Atlas, Titan, Minuteman, PK. Winners of the Cold War)
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To: jobim

We didn’t say a traditional prayer/blessing, but each person at the table, in turn, said what s/he was thankful for over the past year.


47 posted on 11/24/2016 9:58:52 PM PST by EDINVA
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To: jobim

“Each person please say your own thanks or prayer if you choose to yourself.”

I would have said prayers very loudly and then announced, I did say it to myself. Just that I’m a bit hard of hearing.


48 posted on 11/24/2016 10:00:05 PM PST by Zack Attack
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To: jobim
Nope. At my house, everybody held hands while someone led the prayer. I agree with others here who said they would have left. Your host basically farted in the faces of everybody who didn't agree with him. Typical lib who cannot tolerate other views and expects everyone to conform to his. I would not break bread with a guy like that.

The only alternative to leaving would have been to pray loudly while ending the prayer with "and God bless President-elect Trump."

49 posted on 11/24/2016 10:09:07 PM PST by Sans-Culotte (Time to get the US out of the UN and the UN out of the US!)
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To: jobim

“Yeah, we wouldn’t want to see you burst into flames or anything.”


50 posted on 11/24/2016 10:20:25 PM PST by MarineBrat (Better dead than red!)
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To: jobim

We always keep our prayers to our self. Is there something I’m missing here?


51 posted on 11/24/2016 10:30:07 PM PST by gunsequalfreedom
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To: jobim
Since the rest of our family was out of town, my wife and I accepted an invitation from a family of four who have become very good friends.

The invitation to come for Thanksgiving dinner included a mention of "Trump talk". We were surprised when we arrived to find that we were the only non-family there.

Evidently their other friends were too upset by Hillary's loss to accept the invitation.

We had a great time. Only about half of the conversation centered on Trump's victory.

52 posted on 11/24/2016 10:52:06 PM PST by William Tell
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To: jobim

“Sure. Thanks.”

Then, go outside, say your prayers, and come back in.


53 posted on 11/24/2016 11:00:28 PM PST by Darteaus94025 (Can't have a Liberal without a Lie)
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To: jobim

I didn’t raise my family to stifle the word of God, or to forbid worship of him. The entire point of Thanks Giving IS to thank GOD for his provision. Too bad it’s only once a year...it should be daily.

I wouldn’t visit where God isn’t welcomed. Sometimes one must let the dead bury the dead.


54 posted on 11/24/2016 11:12:59 PM PST by PrairieLady2
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To: jobim

No... our prayers don’t involve politics...


55 posted on 11/25/2016 1:38:27 AM PST by Stormy_2021 (Pear Pimples for Hairy Fishnuts..!)
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To: jobim

Nope. we are happy to give thanks to He who deserves it.


56 posted on 11/25/2016 2:54:39 AM PST by Uncle Sam 911
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To: jobim

If that happened, I would never return to that home. Whether I left immediately would depend on a lot of factors, but I would not be put into that situation again.


57 posted on 11/25/2016 3:14:54 AM PST by Pollster1 ("Governments derive their just powers from the consent of the governed")
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To: jobim

not a Trump backlash. Just leftist haters of religion. Been going on for a long time.


58 posted on 11/25/2016 3:25:27 AM PST by Chickensoup (Leftists today are speaking as if they plan to commence to commit genocide against whites. Beware.)
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To: jobim
Nope - when at our home, I say the prayer and we all stand in a circle holding hands. When at someone else's home, we know who will say the prayer. We went to a pot luck for Thanksgiving (my wife organized it because we know a lot of folks who have no local family) and I was tagged for the prayer and deferred to a 82 year old gentleman who I admire.

Food tastes better, and nourishes our souls too, when we "Do it in remembrance of Him"...

59 posted on 11/25/2016 4:18:25 AM PST by trebb (Where in the the hell has my country gone?)
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To: jobim

I’d simply take that as an open invitation for any or all to offer thanksgiving verbally and moderately for any or all to hear, then expect others to do the same- it’s called collective prayer! If the host or others got offended, I’d do what the Apostles did- shake the dust from shoes as I departed the premises. After all, the gathering was one of “thanksgiving, so offering thanks to the Creator God Almighty would certainly be appropriate....

Yeah, I have not been re-invited a few times....


60 posted on 11/25/2016 4:23:47 AM PST by Manly Warrior (US ARMY (Ret), "No Free Lunches for the Dogs of War")
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