[Hulka]

Read my post and there is your answer.

Or do you think she grew up never asking about cousins, aunts, uncles, grandma and grandpa. . .and why she can’t go visit them.

This is obvious.

[Jolla]

I know I am a minority on this issue here on this sight, I grew up with these people and have worked with them all my life and I AM sympathetic to their plight. Growing up our church has supported them, as a youth I took mission trips and my father in retirement took many trips down to help them, for me it is not a simple or obvious.

[panthermom]

I bet a good portion of her family are here with her.