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To: TexasCajun

OK, I might rephrase that as I don’t understand how 50, 60, or 70 year olds find other 50, 60, or 70 year olds sexually enticing. I don’t. More like please cover up your bodies.


19 posted on 01/14/2014 10:59:39 AM PST by steve86 (Some things aren't really true but you wouldn't be half surprised if they were.)
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To: steve86

OK, I might rephrase that as I don’t understand how 50, 60, or 70 year olds find other 50, 60, or 70 year olds sexually enticing.


I didn’t either, then I got older. This may sound funny, but “women” under 30 look like kids to me. No wrinkles. They are too smoothe. No character. I like character. It’s not just physical to me. Or, to be more precise, the emotional bond with my wife makes the physical hotter than it ever was in some very real ways. And we both turn sixty in a couple of weeks.


24 posted on 01/14/2014 11:03:02 AM PST by cuban leaf
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To: steve86
I might rephrase that as I don’t understand how 50, 60, or 70 year olds find other 50, 60, or 70 year olds sexually enticing. I don’t. More like please cover up your bodies.

The temptation is to tease you a little but it seems a reasonable question. What you learn in age is that you aren't having sex with a body, you're having sex with a person. It takes some of us a long time to learn that lesson. Some never do.

30 posted on 01/14/2014 11:06:20 AM PST by Billthedrill
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To: steve86
I don’t understand how 50, 60, or 70 year olds find other 50, 60, or 70 year olds sexually enticing. I don’t. More like please cover up your bodies.

Sounds like you are "visual" rather than "tactile" or "experiential." It's self-limiting to think that there can only be a turn-on if your partner is young and perfect. You will get older. Your body will become different. But you may still want a little. So try to open yourself to a loving experience rather than just a carnal experience.

37 posted on 01/14/2014 11:12:10 AM PST by Albion Wilde ("Remember... the first revolutionary was Satan."--Russian Orthodox Archpriest Dmitry Smirnov)
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To: steve86
I don’t understand how 50, 60, or 70 year olds find other 50, 60, or 70 year olds sexually enticing. I don’t. More like please cover up your bodies.

Sounds like you are "visual" rather than "tactile" or "experiential." It's self-limiting to think that there can only be a turn-on if your partner is young and perfect. You will get older. Your body will become different. But you may still want a little. So try to open yourself to a loving experience rather than just a carnal experience.

38 posted on 01/14/2014 11:12:10 AM PST by Albion Wilde ("Remember... the first revolutionary was Satan."--Russian Orthodox Archpriest Dmitry Smirnov)
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To: steve86

when I was 18 I didn’t find 40 something attractive, which is probably a good thing. Now I’m 44, the wife is 46 and I find that to be quite attractive, which is DEFINITELY a good thing.


39 posted on 01/14/2014 11:15:49 AM PST by discostu (I don't meme well.)
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To: steve86

Yep, one day it’s, “wow, look at that great ass,” and the next it’s, “wow, look at that great fiber content.”


64 posted on 01/14/2014 12:00:51 PM PST by Excellence (All your database are belong to us.)
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To: steve86

how old are YOU?


86 posted on 01/14/2014 12:31:51 PM PST by goodnesswins (R.I.P. Doherty, Smith, Stevens, Woods.)
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To: steve86

I once knew a beautiful 48 year old woman married to a no-sex-but-reproduction prude like you...she was great in bed. I am not kidding.


119 posted on 01/17/2014 9:45:07 AM PST by CodeToad (When ignorance rules a person's decision they are resorting to superstition.)
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