Posted on 07/10/2006 4:29:13 PM PDT by FreeLuna
My Wife and I seperated three months ago. We have been together for seven years and we have a beautiful four year old girl. She was a huge liberal when we met (she thought K. Marx was a brilliant thinker) but over time and through many debates she came to see the light and began to espouse a conservative viewpoint. She even voted for Bush in the last election. I put her through school working hard to support our family...she was going to be a teacher...elementary school. Then about two years ago she decided she wanted to be an English major...ok..so she switched her major. Then last year about a month before she would have graduated she decided to try jounarlism as a minor and began writing for her school paper. She meets this journalist who is at the school as a visiting fellow. This guy got kicked out of Iraq by top brass because he reported some pretty harh and damaging stoies about our troops and how we were brutal to Iraqis and such. The libs love him and have set him up as one of "theirs" ya know what I mean? LSS I just found out that she dumped me for this guy and is going to go with him from our home state to NY City cuz he got a job with the NEW YORK TIMES!!!!Can you believe this???? Why didn't she just dump me for Saddam Husein or John Kerry??? She plans on taking our daughter with her. I am livid, I am hurt and...I am disgusted. feh! Beware Freepers...you could be next!
Bummer.
Too bad you learned about her true colors after you had a kid.
so true...
Ouch! So sorry, I know you are in pain,
but see, when you diddle with the devil(libs), you get burned.
Give her a little time to get some assets with Mr Commie Times, then sue her a$$ in divorce court!
Too bad she couldn't overcome the power of the Dark Side.
This is why I have dogs.
You are better off now, lots of conservative babes out there.
t.
Sounds like your well rid of her. Perhaps you can use the fact that she cheated on you to portray her as an unfit mother and get custody of your daughter -- if she truly is an unfit mother, aside from being a brain dead liberal.
No, I would say thank God that you have been given the gift of this beautiful little girl, and may she be as much of a comfort and joy to you through your life as my daughter is to me -
most children are the fruit of a good marriage. But for me, my daughter was a gift from my loving Father, who knew that although the love of my husband was not true, my daughter's love would last forever. Sometimes the sweetest wine comes from broken vessels...
May you find joy in your daughter's love.
thanks for the sympathy...lawyers are already involved...I just hate this stuff though. My grandparents had it right. I guess back then "Till death do us part." Meant something.
No kids here and I am sure you love yours to the ends of the earth.
But it makes things complicated for you -- and is another avenue of potential loss.
The courts hate men, period.
I hope you can keep your daughter and can keep your soon to be ex from poisoning her mind.
Fight the good fight, but fight tough. My sister didn't and her kids were poisoned against her.
I find joy in her love, but, at this point I am freaking out about the prospect of her being so far away. I do have faith that God knows what he is doing though.
You're nuts...
You know I really believed she had seen the light, especially after 9/11. But, she turned out to be a classic liberal. No moral, no value and able to justify everything she does as reasonable and right. (or should I say left.)
I'd fight her for your daughter...big time!!! You don't won't her poisoned by the looney garbage.
You also need to get lots of believers praying over this situation. Our Lord will help you to keep that daughter of yours. Or even turn the tables where your wife will see this error she's about to make and return her to her sane husband.
Ouch - sorry to hear that.
Fight for your daughter now. Let you daughter know that you are doing it because you love her. It will be much harder later on. Get a very good lawer. It is very hard with the courts the way they favor women, but you have things on your side here as well. At the very least then you might be able to prevent your unfaithful wife from leaving your area with your daughter.
I'm sorry for your heartbreak. She should not be able to take your daughter out of state. It's sometimes hard to find a competent attorney but there's lots of information on the internet to help you with this. My son fought for custody of his 2 daughters, acting as his own attorney (he is not a lawyer) and was given custody by two different female judges in two states because his previous spouse had taken them out of state. Maybe custody is not what you want but you do want generous-equal visitation. Dads are very important to daughters and daughters love their dads. Trust yourself to know the right thing to do and when.
Cordio
Love is blind, and none are immune.
Friend of mine in similar situation, and the cure is:
1) passing time
2) enjoy living with passion
Ever heard of Lunar silver star story...A video game?
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