Posted on 03/01/2011 9:05:12 PM PST by PhilosopherStone1000
” Being conservative means valuing life not kicking someone who is already down.”
You’re a Mom...I’m a Dad. Mom’s give their kids hugs, Dad’s tend to give them a kick in the Obama.
Be well.
I’m 24, and I really wish my dad were more involved in my life.
Sixteen is when a girl starts to look independent, but trust me, she needs her father.
Why does your back hurt?
Don’t you want grandchildren? :-)
Sounds like depression talking. That is just a temporary phase, don’t let it sway you into doing something unwise. It would break your daughter’s heart to lose you. Regaining zest for life can come slowly, but it is worth waiting for. In retrospect, all the “reasons” for checking out will seem absurd when the depression clears. Good rest, regular exercise, drawing close with friends and family, and religious practice all help heal the heart back from the bleakness of depression. Its like being under the influence of alcohol - be aware of its effects on judgment.
That would never be considered a 'rational' thought although I would say the majority of people here and in the country have thought of it. You are too valuable, not only to your beautiful daughter, but to those of us fighting to restore the republic.
Because you have joined FR, I am assuming that you are concerned about the direction of the Nation and want to help reverse course. Don't take the easy way out FRiend. The U.S. is worth the fight, worth the effort......not just the U.S. but the cause of LIBERTY.
So you have thoughts of taking the easy way out while we have forefounders who LOST EVERYTHING. Why? Because your world has been rattled as it has been for most of us.
You are needed FRiend...don't take the selfish way out. This is life and what we have and have had is worth fighting for.
And finally: John 3:16
“And what, exactly, do I have to “give” her?
Love.
Ever been to a funeral?
Most people miss their loved ones when they are gone. It’s especially hard on the children. Think about how it would affect her.
BTW, I don’t live in any ‘DisneyConservative’ World. I have seen loss and had to deal with my own version of this issue. But that’s all part of the human experience, isn’t it?
Hugs to you!
“Sixteen is when a girl starts to look independent, but trust me, she needs her father.”
:)
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There is more you can do to advance her life. She’s a high school junior?? Please don’t do this to her. My husband did this when sons were about this age and they still suffer (and he wasn’t close to them either)
“the date” is coming up and one of them is back in counseling, mourning, not understanding, needing. Heck, I still miss my dad that died 35 years ago of pneumonia.
My daughter will be 39 this month. She lost her job 2 yrs ago and has not been able to find another yet. She went back to school in hopes of becoming a Respiratory Therapist while still looking for a job. Man, I don’t know what would have happened to her and my grandkids if her ol’ dad and I weren’t still around.
Don’t think they ever quit needing you because you never know what life is going to hand out.
Cool!
Make out your “bucket list”
Include things on it that are reasonable expectations.
Like buy a sports car and climb Pikes Peak, with the top down.
Oh, and don’t forget to include: kissing and holding your daughter’s newborn child.
Then come up with a new bucket list! If things still don’t look good at that point, take your sports car up to 90 mph and slam it into a bridge abutment.
I can second that. Children, and children benefit, from
and need parents and grandparents. ... I might add that
courage is philosophical virtue, is it not? Be brave,
persevere, and look for some first aid from a trusted
source.
Grandchildren...
They deserve a grandaddy.
Bucker up buddy - the best is yet to come...
If you still feel the same way in 30 years, let’s revisit then... :)
My Dad died of cancer when he was only 49.
Quit feeling so sorry for yourself and find something to do that will make a difference.
To PhilosopherStone1000; you must, must get a thorough
medical exam ASAP, including thyroid tests and testosterone
levels. You feel terrible; you must rule out other physical
causes, just as you would with any other severe unrelenting
pain.
I love that! :)
My dad was 61 when his life was stolen from him. I was 21. I am now almost 40 and miss him for all the times he could have been there for me and despise the man who stole him from me. I am sure my dad didn’t think he did anything extraordinary, either, but I have friends who grew up to be great parents to their own children, because of his influence. I have enough trouble thinking of life without him for the last 15 years. I would have been beyond devistated if he had not been around when I was 16. I miss my daddy.
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