Posted on 08/30/2012 6:16:12 PM PDT by MrPiper
I was replying to your quote from the other guy. I caught that!
Ok, I just didn’t want anyone to think his POV was mine on that issue.
;-)
It could be ruinous to your reputation!
My gf has some years on me but wants it just as much as I do if not more...she initiates way more than I do and I know plenty of guys in their 50's60's who still have regular,great sex with their wives who also want it on a regular basis.
Don't want to sound like a "white knight" here but many guys stop romancing their wives, let themselves go physically or other things and wonder why their wives no longer are attracted to them physically/sexually..though it goes both ways.
The marriage counselor friend of mine said one of the biggest complaints he hears from women is their husband is no longer giving them sex and intimacy and passion..yes, men are neglecting their wives sexually out there also. I don't undstand it..maybe boredom..porn??
Lot of frustrated Peg Bundy's out there.
Remind you of those Code Pink RNC protesters' costumes, do they?
(I prefer the term mangina -- which btw seems to fit those protestors just as well...)
Cheers!
Absolutely.
But, if he cannot get a conversation to discuss the issue(s) the only thing he can do is find out what it is about HIM that he can change to make the next go around better.
Believe me...speaking from experience, it is possible to recover from even the worst situation if you are willing to dig deeply into your own actions. It is impossible to change anyone else.
Sometimes people have problems that they're very reluctant to discuss, even with their spouses and physicians. Impotence is one of those issues. It's only my opinion, but I think that communication is crucial to maintaining any sort of relationship and/or deciding whether or not said relationship is mutually destructive, beyond repair, and should be terminated.
Make that lady, and sorry, but you aren’t fooling me when you split hairs about child vs. adult prostitution. Your wife was wrong, you’re also being wrong. Try talking to a pastor or something, you need some serious spiritual help.
I don’t know, but people probably aren’t going to get help talking to strangers on the internet. I can only say that almost always when someone I know got divorced I was not surprised and usually both were sabotaging the relationship in some way. AND you cannot tell either party anything because they are sure none of it is their fault. Life is complicated, relationships are complicated and marriage is hard. Communication is important but the best preparation for a good marriage is to have grown up surrounded by good marriages.
lady, you don't have a clue, talked to a pastor, said pray to Jesus, did that, no answer. Huge difference in child vs adult prostitution, never asked a kid out to supper, but the 30 yr old gave sex for the price of a dinner, what do you call it?
almost all women are prostitutes one way or another, they give sex for money....be it marriage or free drinks and a meal.
if you are a guy, you are warned, they are all crazy. Pay for sex is smarter than dating.
By the way lady, all a women has to do for sex with me is ask, If women were like this, there would be no bad marriages.
By the way lady, all a women has to do for sex with me is ask, If women were like this, there would be no bad marriages.
You need to keep praying. As the bible says “without ceasing”. You seem to expect to talk to God once and have a lightning bolt come down and change your life. It usually doesn’t work that way.. God does change lives, every single day....after we confess our sins, repent of them (that means not doing them any more), ask forgiveness and ask Jesus as our Savior. Then we do the work to allow the Holy Spirit to change us, like worshipping, attending church with other strong believers, reading His word, tossing the sin out of our lives.
But you can’t have it both ways. You can’t keep sinning with prostitutes and expect God to change your life. God is holy and perfect, he cannot abide sin in any form. Satan, on the other hand, is delighted he’s able to keep his big nasty hands around your throat and has you firmly in his grip...because you ALLOW HIM TO.
You’re miserable in your life? Stop letting the Evil One control you. And make no mistake about it.....you are NO MATCH for satan. Eternity is at stake here Mr. Piper. You can either choose to be in relationship with God forever or separated from God forever. You need to choose wisely. And time is short.
Whatever bad things occurred in your relationship with this woman...or women.. you are still valuable and very much loved by God. He desperatley wants to have you turn to Him. Frankly Mr Piper, God is absolutely crazy about you. But God gives us free will....we can accept Him and his perfect promises (God is good, all of the time) or we can reject Him.
Nothing....no-thing in this life will ever fill you up permanently. Only God can do that.
You might take a look at the website below and the videos there.
www.peacewithgod.net
gave up fun years ago, prayers are a waste of time, don't bother, the will be no answer. Personal experances , hundreds of prayers, no answers. You are on your own...learn to live with the life of a worm, that's about all that is left.
Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.