Skip to comments.The 5 Unique Ways Intelligent People Screw Up Their Lives
Posted on 10/07/2012 7:09:08 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
There is usually only a limited amount of damage that can be done by dull or stupid people. For creating a truly monumental disaster, you need people with high IQs. Thomas Sowell
1) They may believe that learning about something is the same as doing it.
When youve gone to school for years, read hundreds of books, and talked to experts about a subject, theres a tendency to believe that you can learn everything you possibly need to know about something without ever doing it. Unfortunately, there are some things in life you can just never understand without personally experiencing them, as this quote from Good Will Hunting explains.
Sean: So if I asked you about art, youd probably give me the skinny on every art book ever written. Michelangelo, you know a lot about him. Lifes work, political aspirations, him and the pope, sexual orientations, the whole works, right? But Ill bet you cant tell me what it smells like in the Sistine Chapel. Youve never actually stood there and looked up at that beautiful ceiling; seen that. If I ask you about women, youd probably give me a syllabus about your personal favorites. You may have even been laid a few times. But you cant tell me what it feels like to wake up next to a woman and feel truly happy. Youre a tough kid. And Id ask you about war, youd probably throw Shakespeare at me, right, once more unto the breach dear friends. But youve never been near one. Youve never held your best friends head in your lap, watch him gasp his last breath looking to you for help. Id ask you about love, youd probably quote me a sonnet. But youve never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable. Known someone that could level you with her eyes, feeling like God put an angel on earth just for you. Who could rescue you from the depths of hell. And you wouldnt know what its like to be her angel, to have that love for her, be there forever, through anything, through cancer. And you wouldnt know about sleeping sitting up in the hospital room for two months, holding her hand, because the doctors could see in your eyes, that the terms visiting hours dont apply to you. You dont know about real loss, cause it only occurs when youve loved something more than you love yourself. And I doubt youve ever dared to love anybody that much. And look at you . I dont see an intelligent, confident man . I see a cocky, scared sh*tless kid. But youre a genius Will. No one denies that. No one could possibly understand the depths of you. But you presume to know everything about me because you saw a painting of mine, and you ripped my f*cking life apart. Youre an orphan right? You think I know the first thing about how hard your life has been, how you feel, who you are, because I read Oliver Twist? Does that encapsulate you? Personally I dont give a sh*t about all that, because you know what, I cant learn anything from you, I cant read in some f*ckin book. Unless you want to talk about you, who you are. Then Im fascinated. Im in. But you dont want to do that do you sport? Youre terrified of what you might say. Your move, chief.
Additionally, as Thomas Sowell has noted, experience trumps brilliance. If you had a restaurant, whom would you rather have running it for the next year? A seasoned veteran of a restaurant business with a decade of experience and an average IQ or Nikola Tesla, one of the most brilliant scientists who ever lived? Keep in mind that Tesla used to falsely claim that he had created a death ray, never married because he thought great inventors should remain celibate, and spent the last decade of his life obsessing over pigeons. Yeah, thats what I thought.
2) They can be really good at coming up with excuses for failure.
Just as you can use a gun for target practice or a robbery and a knife to cut a steak or slash a tire, intelligence is a tool that can be used many different ways. One of the most common ways brilliant people hurt themselves is by using their intellect to devise excuses for why theyve failed instead of coming up with new ways to succeed. People who are really good at this can come up with a theory about life, see it fail every test, and still be just as convinced they were right as when they started. These are the sort of people Talleyrand once described as having learned nothing and forgotten nothing.
3) They sometimes become overconfident about their intellect.
If dumb people have a tendency to ask too many questions and move too slowly, their more clever brethren can make the mistake of asking too few questions and plunging in too quickly. This can often backfire because brain power is not applied equally across all facets of a human mind. You can be brilliant at math, but average at English; have a knack for dealing with people, but be unable to understand computers; be a marketing wizard, but a relationship disaster.
Many smart people make the incorrect assumption that because theyre smart in one area, theyll be just as smart in every area once they figure it out. Napoleon was sure he would figure out how to deal with the Russian winter; Bernie Madoff thought he would figure out a way to get away with fraud; and William James Sidis, who may have been the most intelligent man who ever lived, was probably shocked to end up in a sanatorium for a year because of his decision to participate in a socialist riot. Unfortunately, there is no such thing as too smart to fail.
4) Theyre used to being right so much that they stop listening to other people.
When youre a genius, you get used to being right when everyone else around you is wrong. You outsmart other people, you out-test them, you outmaneuver them, and you get very used to moving forward even when other people are telling you that youre wrong. This is not a bad thing. It just goes with the territory. However, whether youre talking about you, me, Einstein it doesnt matter, everybody makes mistakes. The problem the smartest person in the room has when he screws up is that he may assume that this is one of those many, many times when hes gotten it right and everyone else has blown it. Next thing you know, youre Mike Markkula pushing Steve Jobs out at Apple or Lyndon Johnson dramatically ramping up our forces in Vietnam while simultaneously making decisions from Washington that made it completely impossible to ever win the war. No amount of intellect will ever replace the value of wise counsel.
5) They may try to show how uncommon they are.
Common sense doesnt appeal to many intellectuals simply because its common. That may seem counter-intuitive, but think about it from their perspective: If theyre ever so much smarter than the average person, why are they doing the same things that average people do? Why would they believe the same things that average people believe? How can they be unique, special, and smarter than everyone else when they believe the same things as average Alvin and dumb Dave? If theyre so much smarter, shouldnt they know better?
What you hear referred to as anti-intellectualism is often really just a reaction to this attitude. Its why William F. Buckley once said,
Id rather entrust the government of the United States to the first 400 people listed in the Boston telephone directory than to the faculty of Harvard University.
Its also why Morgan Freeberg has noted that intellectualism has become the readiness, willingness and ability to call dangerous things safe, and safe things dangerous. When smart people feel compelled to take stupid positions to prove how smart they are, they can turn their own lives and the lives of everyone around them into a train wreck in the process.
They associate with, or try to believe that, liberals are not evil and can be trusted.
In short, complicated people lead complicated lives and make complicated decisions (usually).
Sowell, brilliant as usual.
In short, simple people lead simple lives and make simple decisions (usually). Not the case with Joe Biden, obviously.
That is the premise behind "Trouble with the Curve", the new Eastwood movie. See it. It's good.
When presumably smart people take political office and make these 5 mistakes, it affects all of us, unfortunately.
#6 - Becoming involved with a liberal woman.
I used to think I was smart. Thank G-d those days are past.
Now if I get through the day physically intact and know where my next meal is coming from, then I’ve achieved something.
I once walked through Cologne Cathedral and looked at the stained glass windows and thought, “it’s people who built this cathedral who make me realize how little I’ve accomplished.”
No, G-d just gave to them greater gifts, that’s all. He didn’t make me very intelligent and that’s a relief.
If asked how much I know, I respond, “enough to know I don’t know it all”.
Expertise in one field does not carry over into other fields. But experts often think so. The narrower their field of knowledge the more likely they are to think so.
This is false. According to Tesla's lab notebook, he created something that we now call a ruby laser.
The laser cannons that the military are using now are indeed "death rays."
6. They vote Democrat. Well maybe not, we’re talking about intelligent people here.
“When smart people feel compelled to take stupid positions to prove how smart they are, they can turn their own lives and the lives of everyone around them into a train wreck in the process.”
Yeah...those relationships didn’t work for me.
Tough read. A better analogy is that I tried for years to teach my kids framing, took them to sites, did all I could think of. They knew the terminology, supposedly the processes. But then we built a structure, and they finally LEARNED framing.
When I graduated from College (I was about 30)...and co-workers were congratulating me....all I could say was...”Now I know how much I do NOT know”
“Id rather entrust the government of the United States to the first 400 people listed in the Boston telephone directory than to the faculty of Harvard University.”
I would rather entrust the government to the first 400 people in the phone book of a small town in Texas or Oklahoma. Boston is too liberal!
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