Posted on 01/12/2014 11:15:50 AM PST by SeekAndFind
"Furthermore, when a man and woman go out and they can barely make their way through a bar or club without the man getting hugs, rubs, waves, and winks, the man is not likely to score points with his date."
I can't help that my charisma and animal magnetism are overwhelming to the ladies.
"Nice legs. What time do they open?"
Uh, I thought this was about DESIRABLE women.
A man is not complete, until he marries; then, he is finished ;)
You know, for a fat girl, you sure don’t sweat much.
not sure about the “darling”. like waitresses calling you “hon” darling could be a regional thing in the proper context.
#26. It came as a revelation to me that they do t want to solve problems, just complain about them.
LOL
Starting from the top of the list, it is part of the sexual biology of women that they “display” for males, in competition with other females, and men are supposed to pay attention to them, from which they can choose a suitor.
However, several things can go wrong with this process.
To start with, in adolescence, girls are compelled to display for boys, *in practice*, just to learn what gets their attention, without wanting to mate. They will often over-do with gaudy clothing and makeup, or worse, get in competition with other girls over how much skin they can expose. Today, the technology of camera-phones has led to the “selfie” in which girls can display to boys from the safety of distance; often with nudity.
Parents really need to get a handle on this.
Another way this can go really wrong is when girls have success with getting the attention of boys, and they become, for want of a better phrase, “attention whores”. They can become so indiscriminate in trying to get attention that they become *real* whores; or fall under the psychological domination of someone who acts like a pimp. It doesn’t matter if he is slapping her, or dancing with her, he is showing her attention, so in her mind, “he cares”, and feeds her addiction.
On the side of boys and men, they are also biologically compelled, as well as taught, to pay attention to the displays of girls; and to expect this to magically turn off once they are attached to a woman is expecting a lot. However, they can be *trained* to tone it down, and not to gawk at other women.
That is, when they are together, women are no longer supposed to display, and men are no longer supposed to gawk at the displays of other women.
Ideally, once men and women are in a relationship, they both get a handle on their impulses. From that point, they need to find a balance point of the amount of attention the man needs to regularly give her; and for her not to so directly associate attention with either affection or loyalty, which can be demonstrated in other ways.
Farting didn’t make the list?
Somewhat sarcastic, but equally - somewhat true in evolution ...
A Man will mate the prettiest woman he can afford.
A woman will mate with the richest man she can attract.
Today’s women HAVE to “marry” the government, because they cannot attract any other Man.
Darling, you got peanut butter legs? Smooth, creamy, and easy to spread?
Looks like I scare a Perfect 10!
Do I get a prize, or something?
To quote Willie Nelson,
“Stick with me, girl, and you’ll be fartin’ through silk!
“Stick with me, girl, and you’ll be wearing horse turds big as diamondS”
I remember something like, “Baby, I’ll treat you like a postage stamp . . .”, but I can’t repeat the rest here.
Is that Jabba the Hut’s Grandson? Doing pretty well for himself.
Thank you.
They can get over that. My days of pretending I don't notice a hot chick are over. I look as I please.
Willie also loves Keno Girls and their trailer hitch acumen
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