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Professor Says Women Are Ruining Their Chances of Getting Married By Being So Sexually Cheap
Jezebel ^ | September 29. 2017 | Aimée Lutkin

Posted on 09/29/2017 6:21:22 PM PDT by EdnaMode

Edited on 09/29/2017 8:07:58 PM PDT by Admin Moderator. [history]

In what some (the author) likely consider a groundbreaking assertion, University of Texas sociology professor Mark Regnerus is warning women that no one buys the cow when it gives the milk away for free.

In an extraordinarily trollish essay for the Wall Street Journal, excerpted from his book on the same subject, Regnerus makes a lot of sweeping generalizations about how the decline of marriage is a result of women boinking with impunity. He starts out with this quote from a 24-year-old guy named Kevin, a man of age who knows all there is to know about romantic and sexual relationships:

“Girls are easier to mislead than guys just by lying or just not really caring. If you know what girls want, then you know you should not give that to them until the proper time. If you do that strategically, then you can really have anything you want…whether it’s a relationship, sex, or whatever. You have the control.”

Nasty, Regnerus admits, but it works. And if it works, why would any guy ever stop lying to every woman he meets or treat them as people with any actual value? You can only get a guy to hang with you long enough to respect your humanity if you hold sex just out of reach for as long as possible, like a little bonbon in reward for eye contact.

To make his point about what dumb bimbos ladies are, Regnerus asks a girl named Kristin if men should make “sacrifices” for sex. She gives him a confusing answer (because wtf does that even mean) and he draws a damning conclusion:

Kristin rightly wants the men whom she dates to treat her well and to respect her interests, but the choices that she and other women have made unwittingly teach the men in their lives that such behavior is noble and nice but not required in order to sleep with them. They are hoping to find good men without supporting the sexual norms that would actually make men better.

My vagina is for teaching a lesson. If you’re not learning, I’m doing something wrong—to all of society!!

This cheap sex isn’t happening just because women are stupid and give the fuck without demanding a candlelit dinner first. It’s the result of technology, apparently. The two “technologies” Regnerus names are birth control—which he admits has been around for 60 years, so it’s unclear why family planning is a modern culprit—and pornography:

Online porn has made sexual experience more widely and easily available too. A laptop never says no, and for many men, virtual women are now genuine competition for real partners.


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: feminisim; markregnerus; marriage; men; pua; redpill; women
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To: EdnaMode

Click the Pic

21 posted on 09/29/2017 6:46:42 PM PDT by Fiddlstix (Warning! This Is A Subliminal Tagline! Read it at your own risk!(Presented by TagLines R US))
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To: EdnaMode

File under: NSS.(No s### Sherlock)


22 posted on 09/29/2017 6:48:22 PM PDT by madison10 (Praying for President Trump and more wisdom for him)
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To: EdnaMode

Partially true. But there is a lot more to it IMO.

The overt man hating culture of “feminism” is a bigger factor. “All men are rapists” and the like don’t entice a man into a very expensive legal relationship.

Who wants to marry someone that has a predatory and vindictive view of the male sex? When you know that once a child comes along you can be screwed six ways to Sunday by a judiciary that says men must prove their innocence when accused by a woman? When proving a negative is a logical impossibility?

I have been married once, still am 40 years later. But my wife is not a man hating predator. But the legal system would have been on her side had she been one.


23 posted on 09/29/2017 6:52:12 PM PDT by ChildOfThe60s (If you can remember the 60's....You weren't really there)
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uh oh...somebody is about to doxxed, protested, and then fired


24 posted on 09/29/2017 6:52:45 PM PDT by dsrtsage (One half of all people have below average IQ. In the US the number is 54%)
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To: SkyDancer
Written by some guy who’s frustrated no woman would look at him so he comes out with this trash.

And he is a Skinny pants wearer with a man bun!.

25 posted on 09/29/2017 6:53:16 PM PDT by Autonomous User (During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.)
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To: Wiser now

There are two types of girls guys are interested in: the one you take home from the party, and the one you take home to mom and dad.

Never confuse one for the other.


26 posted on 09/29/2017 6:55:01 PM PDT by henkster (The View: A psychiatric group therapy session where the shrink has stepped out of the room.)
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To: Dr. Bogus Pachysandra
I need some free milk!

Would you like a free STD with that free milk?

27 posted on 09/29/2017 6:55:10 PM PDT by ytrebil
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To: EdnaMode

These days it’s “Why buy the pig when all you want is some sausage?”


28 posted on 09/29/2017 6:55:13 PM PDT by ReagansShinyHair
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To: EdnaMode

Send a few of the sexually cheap ones over here ( pictures first!) and I’ll test them out for you and let you know if the article’s correct or not.


29 posted on 09/29/2017 6:55:31 PM PDT by faithhopecharity ("Politicans are not born, they're excreted." -- Marcus Tillius Cicero)
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To: Autonomous User

Actually wearing pants called “a butt bag”


30 posted on 09/29/2017 6:55:41 PM PDT by SkyDancer ( ~ Just Consider Me A Random Fact Generator ~)
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To: EdnaMode
Hmmm, over twenty years ago sed ed began to include lessons which taught young girls how to roll down condums on bananas held by male classmates.

Girls learn to get over their natural sense of modesty with lessons like that.

Fast forward to now ... lots of young women have no sense of modesty and sex is cheap.

31 posted on 09/29/2017 6:57:29 PM PDT by Slyfox (Are you tired of winning yet?)
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To: CodeToad; DiogenesLamp

ping


32 posted on 09/29/2017 6:57:57 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: SkyDancer

Actually wearing pants called “a butt bag”

you mean... Butt Plug.


33 posted on 09/29/2017 6:59:20 PM PDT by Autonomous User (During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act.)
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its much better now than it was 50 years ago. back then it was a real drag if you got VD. Today, however, according to the commercial if you contract herpes you get to go swimming, horseback riding, sky diving, you get to have even more sex with even hotter chicks while drinking mojitos on the beach. These days herpes is all the rage


34 posted on 09/29/2017 7:00:43 PM PDT by dsrtsage (One half of all people have below average IQ. In the US the number is 54%)
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To: ChildOfThe60s

Of course not every divorce is due to the woman being a man hating preditor. Sometimes they just can’t get along and need to go their separate ways.

Personally I think it’s the duty of women to be very careful who they engage in baby making activity with. Nature has assigned the duty of protecting the baby to the mother. I’m totally against abortion as birth control. Hugh Heffner and his ilk - who wanted women to be merely pleasure toys - disagreed.


35 posted on 09/29/2017 7:03:04 PM PDT by Aria
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To: dsrtsage
Today, however, according to the commercial if you contract herpes you get to go swimming, horseback riding, sky diving, you get to have even more sex with even hotter chicks while drinking mojitos on the beach. These days herpes is all the rage.

Lolololol. Don't you just love the complete BS liberal claptrap in their fake world?

36 posted on 09/29/2017 7:10:07 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: EdnaMode

This is only one factor of several.


37 posted on 09/29/2017 7:10:18 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man ( Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: EdnaMode

There may be something to it, but it is wrong to lay this all at the feet of women.

Good men (and women) have to be raised from children with good moral character. Good parenting, good examples (in life and in the media), and real religious education are probably more important.


38 posted on 09/29/2017 7:11:21 PM PDT by BeauBo
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To: Wiser now

“When I entered my teens, young women were taught not only to withhold sex before marriage, we were even told to be stingy with our kisses, lest a boy get the wrong idea.”

Like girls told Richard Pryor when he was a teenager, “I ain’t gonna [BLEEP] you, you cain’t even sing.”


39 posted on 09/29/2017 7:16:40 PM PDT by PLMerite ("They say that we were Cold Warriors. Yes, and a bloody good show, too." - Robert Conquest)
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To: Dr. Bogus Pachysandra

I was thinking the same thing: cow-milk-free.


40 posted on 09/29/2017 7:16:45 PM PDT by jonsie
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