Wives hire other women to test 'cheating' men

WorldNetDaily.com ^ | December 21, 2003

[nickcarraway]

More spouses paying 'honey-trap girls' to gauge husbands' fidelity

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Suspicious wives are increasingly hiring so-called "honey-trap girls" to purposely come on to their husbands to test their commitments to their marriages.

According to a report in the Melbourne Herald Sun, women are paying licensed investigators to flirt with their husbands to see how they will react.

"It's a very rewarding job. I love it," Amber confessed to the paper. She had just spent time with a client's husband in a bar. The man, married four years with two young children, gave Amber his telephone number before the evening was over.

"I never let them kiss me, and it's not entrapment because I never ask them for anything," she points out. Entrapment, where the woman initiates contact with the man, is illegal in the area Amber plies her trade.

The woman explained she "smiled in a flirtatious way" when the man first entered the bar.

According to the report, clients are paying thousands of dollars for such fidelity checks. In Europe, the Australian paper said, a company called The Honey Trap is advertising for attractive recruits.

Don Doolan, president of the Association of Investigators and Security Professionals, told the Herald Sun demand for such services is booming in Australia.

"These techniques have always been used, but in the past 10 years there has probably been a five-fold increase," he said.

The process involves getting the attention of the "target" and then waiting for him to make the first move. Doolan says that often happens in a matter of minutes.

"Most blokes think below their belly button," Doolan told the paper.

The manager of another service, Kirri Cleaver of Gotcha Enterprises, says 40 percent of the targeted men do not tell the female investigator they are in a committed relationship.

One investigator shared an even worse statistic.

"In our experience, subjects are innocent in only about 10 percent of cases," Dalla Riva is quoted as saying.

Said Cleaver:"Women don't want to waste their time, or be used or have their heart broken. You buy a house, you're going to have it checked for rising damp, but you get into a relationship and nobody asks any questions."

[baltodog]

As long as you're not a vet, that's no problem.
But if you're a vet, that's sick.

[Hardastarboard]

I used to mostly think below my waist, but at my age, I'm not nearly as smart as I used to be. :-)

[Gorzaloon]

I have always said

"Why eat a hamburger at a take out place when you can eat Ribeye at home"

Well, if one has to cook the ribeye at home themselves, a Big Mac could be a treat....

[expatguy]

I wish my wife would hire Claudia Schiffer.

[Chief_Joe]

I think you meant that women who have such a proclivity to distrust are themselves untrustworthy. What you said is redundant :-)

Thanks for the correction.

[BluH2o]

The man, married four years with two young children, gave Amber his telephone number before the evening was over.

Back when I knew an attractive flight attendant (stewardess) who used to give pesky guys, hitting on her for a telephone number, the # of a bug extermination firm. Maybe married guys in Aussie land should do the same thing ...

[RGSpincich]

Nothing good can possibly happen when a member of the opposite sex is overly friendly at the first meeting. 50+ years experience speaking.
This new form of temptation, the tattletale temptress, is particularly hideous because it is unleashed by a supposed loved one.

[Cvengr]

Relationships are supposed to be founded on trust.

I trust everybody. I still cut the cards.

IMHO, It's far better to found that relationship upon faith in God first, then by faith an impersonal love for the spouse in premarriage courtship and then personal love and devotion as a couple in marriage through faith in God.

In Scripture, God never tempts anybody. One indication that one is dealing with a person without faith is if they continually tempt to sin. Sex within marriage isn't sinful per se, but this tactic indicates the wife bases her relationship upon trust rather than faith. It's doomed from the start.

Exposing the marriage to only trust, provides avenues for mistrust in any contrived thought or argument which has begun on a false premise.

[Banjoguy]

Hey, my ex would be another candidate for the job..also do the cheating!

[JZoback]

Could your wife afford to hire her?

[Ronin]

Playing with fire. And YES it is entrapment.

Almost any man who has it waved in his face long enough is going to take a sniff.

[GrandMoM]

While they're at it, shouldn't wives also check their hubby's with gays?

And Sears wet-and-dry vacs?.......Oh geeezze Laz, here you go again. Now I need a new keyboard!!!!!!!!

[uncbob]

So she created an online persona for herself and lured him in and documented everything! What a moron...he was so busted.

Gotta give her credit for originality
Once sharp woman . She ought to work for the CIA

[TalBlack]

To: Young Rhino
hen various studies have shown that 10-15% of all children born to married women have a different biological father than the husband.
Not that I doubt you saw that number stated somewhere, but I have a hard time believing it.


39 posted on 12/21/2003 4:55:31 AM PST by JZoback

Probably back in the 1980's there were blood tests done (for some health reason I think) on people in an English town and the result was something like what Young Rhino describes. This made the news wires!

[Lazamataz]

When my wife got home from work, the house was clean, the firewood was stacked, the dishes were done, the windows were washed, the margarita was fixed, and I had a hot supper ready for her.

She flopped down in front of the TV and spent the rest of the evening bitching about what a crappy day she had at work.

What's wrong with this picture?

The fact you weren't willing to listen and be supportive when she clearly needed it most?

[Wil H]

Fair enough, but what is trust founded on?

In the case of a marraige, your own judgement, respect - and love.

[Xenalyte]

While they're at it, shouldn't wives also check their hubby's with gays?

"I've seen things, I've seen them with my eyes . . . I've seen things, they're often in disguise . . ."

[Xenalyte]

"Why eat a hamburger at a take out place when you can eat Ribeye at home"

The older I get, the more I prefer Al Bundy's version:

"Why would I go out for milk when I have a cow at home?"

[Lazamataz]

"Alice In Chains" it ain't. ;^)

[going hot]

You only have to look at chelsea alongside web hubbel to see where hillary had been.