Posted on 08/30/2004 6:40:40 AM PDT by Caleb1411
The ads are all over the Web. Between spam cluttering e-mail boxes and pop-up notices springing up on browsers, all the sex anyone might desire is just a mouse click away.
"The number of fetish sites on the Web would astonish you," said New York-based sex therapist Dorothy Hayden. "Women with body hair … bestiality … it staggers the imagination."
Most of us navigate quickly past the come-ons. But for some who are enticed to open these cyber doors, one click can ruin their lives.
"I thought it was just a recreational thing that I could do on my own, but it cost me everything," said Michael Leahy.
He told 20/20 that he kept his habit a secret from his wife, Patti Onorato, for 14 years. But eventually his life came crashing down, just like that of an alcoholic hitting rock bottom. In this case, though, the drug of choice was cyberporn.
Leahy and Onorato were still newlyweds when his computer sales job sent him on the road. That gave him the freedom to explore an erotic new world.
"I would take time out of my day instead of making calls from, you know, 8 to 5," said Leahy. "I would hook up to the Internet and start looking at porn sites. … It was pretty lurid stuff."
As time went on, his new passion took over. He lost job after job. It was an addiction without clear signs, a drug that left no track marks.
"I was definitely living a double life," said Leahy.
At home, he was a father to two handsome, healthy sons. He earned a six-figure salary and his wife was a respected schoolteacher.
But behind closed doors there was something missing: sex. . . .
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Rather scary isn't it? Our former county sheriff was convicted for having child porn on his personal PC. Of course there's a healthy alternative right here at Freerepublic. I can't seem to get away from this dang 'puter!
""The number of fetish sites on the Web would astonish you," said New York-based sex therapist Dorothy Hayden. "Women with body hair … bestiality … it staggers the imagination." "
I'm sure it does, and I"m sure Ms. Hayden had a terrific time finding all this stuff. I've been using the web since the mid 80's. You know what? I've never been to a single porn site.
All that stuff I've been missing! Wow!
Could it be that all these folks who are "addicted" to porn were creeps in the first place?
Is it really healthy for me to mix with other "evil" conservatives who oppose the slaughter of unborn children, the feeding of people who refuse to work, the overtaxing of those who put people to work, the free medical treatment and feeding of criminally residing immigrants, the legitimizing of queer marriage, the abolition of free speech for conservative politics but preservation of pornography...?
I guess this IS an obsession!
Hey, I'm in sympathy. I understand addiction.
My Ode to FR
The dog is in the garbage,
The kids are in the car.
The doorbell it is ringing,
And me? I'm on FR.
The car keys are now missing,
I don't know where they are.
That really doesn't matter,
It's better on FR.
The sink is overflowing,
The boys have broke a jar.
The dryer it is buzzing,
But I'm still on FR.
Heck, who needs print and TV,
Drugs, gambling, or a bar?
We know the more addicting
Habit is FR.
One day I'll really lose it,
One day I'll go too far,
One day they'll haul me out of here,
Screaming for FR.
This article is better than a scientific study. It is real world and cyberporn is having a devastasting impact on our society.
There's porn on the internet?
Got any data to back that assertion? The article cites one loser who could just as well have become addicted to Home Shopping Network.
"It is real world and cyberporn is having a devastasting impact on our society."
Is it? Do you have any evidence for that statement? I'm sure it can have a devastating impact on individuals who do nothing but look at porn, but I've seen no evidence that it has much impact on society at large. Porn has always been with us, and icky people have always been addicted to porn.
It's just easier to find now online. As I said, I've been using the net for almost 20 years now, and have never been to a porn site. Am I missing something?
Sex, drugs, and rock and roll: we know that drugs are bad, and that libertine sex causes STD epidemics and, in some cases, death (an AIDS epidemic would not exist in a monogamous society). Porn is a subset of libertine sex and sexuality. The likelihood of unbridled porn having harmful effects upon individuals intuitively seems high, but I know that is not scientific.
Yep. But, of course, the anecdotal evidence is overwhelming.
Amen... lol
That is one sentiment I'll never understand. As a man, sure, pornography is tempting. But it just doesn't compare to an actual roll in the hay with a woman.
If these guys are finding porn more satisfying, something is wrong with them.
Exactly. It's called addiction.
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