I agree that not all homosexuals are the same although I in no way say the Bible is wrong. I am searching to understand and hope that someday the medical field will uncover what I see as a misconnect somewhere.
Some are merely seeking depravity and new thrills.
But some seem to have a malfunction in the puberty process IMHO. This can be seen in the young.
What young teenager would willingly give up chasing girls as other teens do, would willingly make himself an outcast from his good male friends and seek to ruin his goal of a future family?
I think all is fine as these young men reach puberty. They run with the same friends until gradually their friends pair off with girlfriends and their interests diverge. The questionable male notes that he is merely friends with the girls and does not have the ability to sustain a boy/girl relationship (since underneath it all there is little sexual interest there).
The questionable male than begins to feel left out as he just wants the male friendships and the girlfriends are always taking the friends away. He begins to feel very different and eventually comes across others not obsessed with the boyfriend/girlfriend connection. Then trouble begins.
And I tend to think this is because these questionable males did not have the "switch" that always occurs in the regular male that suddenly makes him notice girls with interest. Somehow this "switch" failed to occur.
This also is shown in the fact that the gay males tend to appear stuck in the young adolescence stage. Their interests do not mature as rapidly as the other males.
No flames necessary here as I in no way wish to further the homosexual side. I just feel that there is more going on there than just the normal seeking perversion.
Another reason? How would any normal males be willing to forego women the rest of their lives? No way. So therefore there is a difference between those that do and those that don't. And I just don't buy that it is always a conscious choice each and every day for perversion over the normal. Don't think any male would do that. Maybe bisexuals - but not all homosexuals.
So this comes down to not hate for them but sadness that they have to face this problem over basic human needs.
It's sin. It makes people do, say, and think things that are evil and contrary to what is normal.
there is a good book Beyond Gay and he goes into what happened to him and how he came to change his life. This man was a gay activist and his story is quite compelling.