Posted on 07/28/2007 12:34:40 PM PDT by wagglebee
The wife of a millionaire industrialist has shocked Indian high society by accusing her husband of forcing her to abort two baby girls after taking illegal tests to determine their gender.
Pooja Salotia even accused her husband, Chirag, of trying to force her to have sex with his two brothers to conceive a male heir for the family machinery business in the state of Gujarat. Police arrested her husband, his two brothers and seven other relatives after Mrs Salotia, 32, filed an official complaint in the city of Ahmedabad on Saturday.
Her allegations against 18 people have sent shockwaves across India by breaking a strict code of silence on such matters and exposing the extent of female foeticide among the urban middle and upper classes.
This is a common thing even in rich families a lot of them get their women to abort girls, Mrs Salotia told The Times from Gujarat, where she has gone into hiding after the release on bail of everyone except her husband. In our culture, girls are not important. But I cant tolerate it any more because its insulting.
The killing of newborn girls has been common in rural India, where a daughter is perceived as a financial burden because her family has to pay a hefty dowry when she is married. But since the advent of ultrasound technology, abortion of female foetuses has become increasingly prevalent, not only in rural communities but also among the urban middle classes.
An international team of researchers estimated last year that ten million girls had been aborted in India over the past two decades, while the Indian Medical Association says that five million are aborted annually.
The result is an increasingly severe gender imbalance, with only 927 women for every 1,000 men in India, according to the 2001 census, down from 945 women a decade earlier.
The worst imbalance, however, is in Indian cities where those with money have ready access to private doctors, who take bribes to skirt a 1994 ban on ultrasound gender tests.
A recent survey indicated that there were only 882 women for every 1,000 men in Defence Colony, one of the upmarket districts of Delhi.
Pratibha Patil, Indias first woman President, called at her inauguration on Wednesday for an end to female foeticide, two days after police found 30 female foetuses dumped in a well in the state of Orissa. However, Mrs Salotia is the first woman from Indian high society to admit publicly to the forced abortion of a girl.
The daughter of a government official in Gujarat, she graduated from university with a degree in commerce. Her sister is a doctor and her brother an architect both based in London. She said that her ordeal began after she gave birth to twin girls in 1997, a year after she married her husband.
She claimed that his family started to harass her and even demanded compensation of £30,000 from her father because she had produced two girls. When she became pregnant again in 1998, her husband forced her to abort at four months after an ultrasound test showed the child to be female, she said. He said he didnt want another baby girl. He wants a boy because hes concerned about who will run our empire thats the mentality.
In 2001 Mrs Salotia was again forced to abort after an illegal gender test revealed she was carrying another girl, she said. After that, she said, her husband started frequenting sexologists and even suggested that she have sex with one of his two brothers as they both had sons. When she refused, and threatened to commit suicide, her husbands family became even more abusive, beating her regularly.
She said that she endured their treatment until this year for the sake of her twin daughters, Dhvani and Dhruvi, who are now 10. She said she had been living separately from her husband for a month, in one of his six houses, and that he had filed for divorce.
Police said that they were searching for several doctors she accuses of performing her abortions.
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This murderous practice will only end when the death penalty is made mandatory for cases of infanticide.
http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/hea_abo_percap-health-abortions-per-capita
The solution seems straightforward enough: outlaw dowries.
Or turn it around and require the groom's family to pay a bride price. (I suspect that will happen on its own, as marriageable girls become scarce.)
Except in this case, it doesn’t sound like there was any financial burden.
The practice of bride price also existed in India, where it was considered as a social evil and the subject of a movement to eradicate it in the early 20th Century. Unlike what happened in the case of dowry, this movement was largely successful, although it has been making a comeback in recent years due to an increasing shortage of women.
You might be right. Social customs can become entrenched to they point that they persist long after the reason for them had disappeared.
On the other hand, I would bet that a millionaire is expected to pay a huge dowry, especially if his daughter marries into another wealthy family.
Whatever the reason, abortion and infanticide are ugly practices.
Where is China?
Oh that’s right, they kill the girls after they are born
Its not this way all over India.
I have 2 Indian Nieces
What's so wrong about creating Indian women (Padma Lakshmi above)? Indian men are stupid.
Where’s china?
Margaret Sanger, feminists legacy:
“Women, children, and minorities hardest hit”.
Feminist support abortion, which is very anti baby girls in many parts of the world.
"He said he didnt want another baby girl. He wants a boy because hes concerned about who will run our empire thats the mentality.
If that is his motivation, the man is an idiot. I have known some Indian women who could run a business as well as any man.
The graph mentions available countries only. China doesn’t let its figures out.
Some family in India will just have to make the decision to buck the stupid dowry system, then girl babies won’t be a burden. It will just take folks who are willing to change an outdated, outmoded system.
Those without Christ in their life, do not value life.
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