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Ill. Student Gets Detention for Hugging
townhall ^ | Nov. 6, 2007

Posted on 11/06/2007 5:04:37 PM PST by Coleus

Two hugs equals two days of detention for 13-year-old Megan Coulter. The eighth-grader was punished for violating a school policy banning public displays of affection when she hugged two friends Friday.

"I feel it is crazy," said Megan, who was to serve her second detention Tuesday after classes at Mascoutah Middle School. "I was just giving them a hug goodbye for the weekend," she said. Megan's mother, Melissa Coulter, said the embraces weren't even real hugs - just an arm around the shoulder and slight squeeze.

"It's hilarious to the point of ridicule," Coulter said. "I'm still dumbfounded that she's having to do this." District Superintendent Sam McGowen said that he thinks the penalty is fair and that administrators in the school east of St. Louis were following policy in the student handbook.

It states: "Displays of affection should not occur on the school campus at any time. It is in poor taste, reflects poor judgment, and brings discredit to the school and to the persons involved." Coulter said she and her husband told their daughter to go ahead and serve her detentions because the only other option was a day of suspension for each skipped detention.

"We don't agree with it, but I certainly don't want her to get in more trouble," Coulter said. The couple plan to attend the next school board meeting to ask board members to consider rewording the policy or be more specific in what is considered a display of affection.

"I'm just hoping the school board will open their eyes and just realize that maybe they shouldn't be punishing us for hugs," Megan said.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; US: Illinois
KEYWORDS: coulter; discipline; displaysofaffection; homeschoolingisgood; pda; publicschool; publicschools; skrewls; zerotolerance
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To: CA Conservative

You can’t say “public school” and “common sense” together.


21 posted on 11/06/2007 5:37:23 PM PST by darkangel82 (And the band played on....)
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To: SilvieWaldorfMD
It's ridiculous and out of control.

When I was h.s. the girls and guys hugged and it was no big deal. Their pep rallies must be a blast. Do they still have pep rallies in school now? I never hear it about it. I must be getting old.

I'm so thankful I was in h.s. in the last 80s. None of this Nanny State b.s.

22 posted on 11/06/2007 5:37:27 PM PST by MotleyGirl70 (We don’t have borders, we have swiss cheese lines.~~~Go Packers!~~~)
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To: Coleus

ah yes, I forgot about no dodgeball...my own school system was one of the ones that banned it, all because some kid didn’t like getting hit with a foam ball. But they didn’t ban lacrosse when someone got hit in the eye with a lacrosse ball and was in the hospital with blurred vision for four hours...

Also the PE department wussed out and switched to nerf basketball for awhile over the fear that some ditz might sue if she broke a nail. People are so damn touchy these days.


23 posted on 11/06/2007 5:37:50 PM PST by G8 Diplomat (Pelosi--pissed off Turkey, supported SCHIP, really jerky, and full of sh|t)
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To: cinives

Well no, it started occurring to me in 7th grade (before that I was too young to notice/care), but it would sound weird if I said “after seven years of it”...makes it sound like I dropped out.


24 posted on 11/06/2007 5:39:08 PM PST by G8 Diplomat (Pelosi--pissed off Turkey, supported SCHIP, really jerky, and full of sh|t)
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To: blackdog
Free birth control in middle schools, but no hugging?

Kinda short on the forplay cirriculum aren't they?

Reply of the... Well, it's the best I've read since joining back in the last century. Way to go!

25 posted on 11/06/2007 5:40:49 PM PST by Ace's Dad ("but every now and then, the Dragon comes to call")
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To: Coleus

The inmates are running the insane asylum.


26 posted on 11/06/2007 5:40:52 PM PST by Uncle Hal
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To: Coleus

Public schools are no longer educational institutions. They’re prisons for kids.


27 posted on 11/06/2007 5:42:56 PM PST by Squawk 8888 (Is human activity causing the warming trend on Mars?)
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To: Coleus

It’s sad isn’t it? I used to hug everyone in school. In eighth grade I used to hug my choir teacher. You know what would happen with that now.


28 posted on 11/06/2007 5:43:07 PM PST by HungarianGypsy
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To: blackdog

LOL..


29 posted on 11/06/2007 5:43:53 PM PST by GOPPachyderm
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To: G8 Diplomat

Damn, you’re slow. I’d had it by the second month of 1st grade.

I already knew how to read long before I hit school, so I was incredibly bored by most of the classwork, and finished long before most of the others (speed was a specialty of mine). My mom sent me to school with a book to read while I was waiting for the rest of the class to finish, so I wouldn’t get in trouble, and dang, don’t you know I got in trouble for ... reading !!

I hated school after that.


30 posted on 11/06/2007 5:44:38 PM PST by cinives (On some planets what I do is considered normal.)
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To: Squawk 8888

Public schools were never about academics from their inception - they were always primarily about proper “socialization”.


31 posted on 11/06/2007 5:46:04 PM PST by cinives (On some planets what I do is considered normal.)
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To: HungarianGypsy

When I was in grade 1, during the class Christmas party our teacher thanked each of us for our gifts with a kiss. If she tried that today I don’t know what would land her in more trouble, the kisses or celebrating Christmas.


32 posted on 11/06/2007 5:50:05 PM PST by Squawk 8888 (Is human activity causing the warming trend on Mars?)
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To: G8 Diplomat
You can't talk, you can't chew gum, you can't have cell phones or MP3 players, you can't wear hoods or hats or sunglasses...Is there anything that IS allowed in public school these days?

 

Well, yes: Free birth control, same-sex indoctrination, and global warming brainwashing. Just to name a few.

33 posted on 11/06/2007 5:50:37 PM PST by Fintan
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To: CA Conservative
Talking in class disrupts instruction; gum sticks to floors and desks, requiring time and money to remove; cell phones and MP3 players provide an avenue for cheating on tests and distract from instruction; hoods, hats and sunglasses all deal with gang attire and paraphanalia.

With talking, I didn't mean talking while the teacher was, I was referring to how in some schools they make you shush up in the hallways when you're going to class (more of a private school thing), which is kinda silly. About gum, that's the kids' problem for not having the courtesy to throw it away. If they had a bit more respect, which many don't today, then it wouldn't be a problem. I don't see how MP3s are an avenue for cheating. Cell phones are, in fact I have seen people cheat using texting. So just do what they do at the SAT--make the kids turn in their cell phones to the teacher until after the test. If you don't, and you get caught cheating, give 'em a zero. Hats, hoods, and sunglasses as gang attire? I don't think putting your hood up or wearing a baseball cap makes it look like you're part of a gang.

But whatever...I'm in college now, I don't care as much about public school rules cuz I don't have to deal with them.
34 posted on 11/06/2007 5:51:16 PM PST by G8 Diplomat (Pelosi--pissed off Turkey, supported SCHIP, really jerky, and full of sh|t)
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To: cinives
I got in trouble for ... reading !!

Not surprising. In grade six I got in trouble in geometry class for getting the right answer; using trigonometry was verboten.

35 posted on 11/06/2007 5:52:04 PM PST by Squawk 8888 (Is human activity causing the warming trend on Mars?)
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To: Fintan

Well, they let the kids have sex but there’s hell to pay if they have a cigarette afterwards.


36 posted on 11/06/2007 5:53:23 PM PST by Squawk 8888 (Is human activity causing the warming trend on Mars?)
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To: cinives

Well I never got in trouble for reading or anything ridiculous like that, but I never liked school at any point during my public school days. But the PCness never hit me until I was 12 or 13, because I didn’t know what it was before then.


37 posted on 11/06/2007 5:54:08 PM PST by G8 Diplomat (Pelosi--pissed off Turkey, supported SCHIP, really jerky, and full of sh|t)
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To: Squawk 8888

Not prisons, but re-education camps. By limiting even rudimentary displays of affection, they are ensuring an emotionally void atmosphere, which they then fill with their “caring” lefthinking.

Brainwashing 101, people. Hitler youth did it, cults do it, because it works. And no, I’m not kidding. Not one bit.


38 posted on 11/06/2007 6:01:44 PM PST by piytar
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To: Squawk 8888

In Typing class in high school I couldn’t get the ASDF thing down. So I started doing my own thing - my speed increased, my accuracy increased... my grades increased. And the teacher scolded me for that.


39 posted on 11/06/2007 6:02:54 PM PST by GeorgeBerryman
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To: Coleus
Mark Twain anticipated this when he said:

"God made the Idiot for practice, and then He made the School Board."

40 posted on 11/06/2007 6:03:07 PM PST by Iron Munro (Suppose you were an idiot, and suppose you were a member of Congress; but I repeat myself.)
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