You sound like a liberal. "You're not willing to admit . . . ," "You must be afraid . . . ," "You don't understand . . ."
Face it: A lot of women just plain disagree with Laura. It's no more complicated than that.
Doesn’t matter whether a lot of women just plain disagree with Laura. What she said is true. The messenger does not affect the truth of the message - though some, prone to insulting people with terms like “you sound like a liberal”, may be blinded to the message because of the messenger.
That's cool. You're allowed to disagree with her all you want. The fact that you disagree with her, OTOH, does not mean that she's wrong
For my entry into this discussion: the marriage vows have each spouse holding a monopoly on the satisfaction of the sexual needs of the other. With that monopoly, comes a duty to satisfy those needs to the best of one's abilities. I hold that chronic refusal to satisfy one's partner's needs (as distinct from occasionally not feeling up to it) is as big a violation of the marriage vows as infidelity