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Prom night decisions: easier than parents think [teens have sex all year long now]
St. Louis Post-Dispatch ^ | 04/12/2008 | AISHA SULTAN

Posted on 04/14/2008 7:30:32 AM PDT by newgeezer

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To: Melas; xsmommy
I have to jump in here as well since I have a 22 year old daughter in college and a 17 year old son. Of all the friends my daughter has, the ones who have both parents still married to each other are the least promiscuous.

I'm not sure if that is a nationwide trend, or just in our own little circles

101 posted on 04/14/2008 3:33:35 PM PDT by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
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To: WhyisaTexasgirlinPA

and you even live in that great metropolis of TEXAS ; )


102 posted on 04/14/2008 3:38:33 PM PDT by xsmommy
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To: xsmommy

Yeah, houston does not resemble the rest of Texas at all......


103 posted on 04/14/2008 3:44:29 PM PDT by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
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To: xsmommy

Probably so.


104 posted on 04/14/2008 3:50:24 PM PDT by stuartcr (Election year.....Who we gonna hate, in '08?)
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To: stuartcr

i love when you are all pliable and agreeable like that ; )


105 posted on 04/14/2008 3:52:06 PM PDT by xsmommy
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To: newgeezer

I am sure it is only the teenage children of liberals in Blue States that are having sex, getting STD’s and having abortions.


106 posted on 04/14/2008 3:55:33 PM PDT by trumandogz ("He is erratic. He is hotheaded. He loses his temper and it worries me." Sen Cochran on McCain)
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To: Melas
but damn girls were aggressive in the 70's.

The girls then weren't just aggressive; they were vicious. Serious character defects. Many were acting out; I remember the 70s (especially the early 70s) as full of rage.

I don't think it was just the sex. A lot of these girls might have been imitating the boys in their behavior. Looking back, I couldn't help wondering: where were the fathers?

107 posted on 04/14/2008 3:59:45 PM PDT by MoochPooch (I'm a compassionate cynic.)
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To: Melas; xsmommy

I was a teenager in the 70’s and we were nothing like the girls of today! I was not sheltered at all, and not a wallflower - but we were no where near as wild as girls are today.


108 posted on 04/14/2008 4:01:36 PM PDT by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
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To: xsmommy

I try to please, besides, I think what you said was true.


109 posted on 04/14/2008 5:23:05 PM PDT by stuartcr (Election year.....Who we gonna hate, in '08?)
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To: WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
I was a teenager in the 70’s and we were nothing like the girls of today! I was not sheltered at all, and not a wallflower - but we were no where near as wild as girls are today.

If it's any consolation, my wife thinks I'm nuts too. She grew up on military bases where everything was well ordered. She says she knew people like me existed, because she read about us in magazines. Lol.

110 posted on 04/14/2008 9:41:27 PM PDT by Melas (Offending stupid people since 1963)
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To: Melas

I think there are still lots of really good kids these days, but do think parenting is getting worse.


111 posted on 04/15/2008 6:19:50 AM PDT by WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
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To: Melas

Good for you. But many, many people become jaded and literally cannot truly fall in love. This is not an outsider’s observation; this conclusion is based on what people say about themselves.

The exception here and there proves nothing, sorry to say. And would you advise that people risk their emotional future over what you yourself describe as “meaningless” sex?

I wouldn’t. It’s meaningless; skip it. Wait for when it will be meaningful.


112 posted on 04/15/2008 9:15:53 AM PDT by fightinJAG (RUSH: McCain was in the Hanoi Hilton longer than we've been in Iraq, and never gave up.)
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To: Melas
I do have daily contact with teenagers with a 16 year old boy and a 14 year old girl. I also have a 29 year old girl and a 27 year old boy, so I've damned near been in continuous contact with teenagers for over a decade. If anything, I think kids are becoming more conservative.

Sounds like your point of reference for the 70's was hanging out primarily with the wild bunch that a lot of us referred to as "the easy sluts" and thought they were the norm. Those girls were the fringe -- not the norm. Even in the "free love" era of the 60's and 70's, girls in the mainstream were not nearly as forward and aggressive as they are these days.

113 posted on 04/15/2008 10:22:36 AM PDT by VRWCmember (McCain 2008 -- If it's inevitible, you might as well lay back and try to enjoy it.)
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Sounds like your point of reference for the 70's was hanging out primarily with the wild bunch that a lot of us referred to as "the easy sluts" and thought they were the norm. Those girls were the fringe -- not the norm. Even in the "free love" era of the 60's and 70's, girls in the mainstream were not nearly as forward and aggressive as they are these days.

Give me a little credit. Had this behavior been limited to a small clique, I would have certainly been aware of it. I'm speaking of what I observed in the mainstream culture around me. There were good girls in school of course, but they were few, far between, and sadly, they were mocked. Now, perhaps the area in which I lived was atypical, but I have no way of knowing what life was really like elsewhere. What I do know is that things weren't radically different in Denver or Boulder, as I spent time in both of those places.

Btw, this would be well past the "free love" era of the late 60's early 70's and well into the heavy metal and punk eras of the late 70's.

114 posted on 04/15/2008 11:39:52 AM PDT by Melas (Offending stupid people since 1963)
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