When A Woman Isn't In The Mood: Part II (Female Nature, Sex And Men Alert)

Townhall.com ^ | 12/30/2008 | Dennis Prager

[GOP Poet]

This cracks me up as most women I talk to in long term relationships whine that their men aren’t sexual ENOUGH! Where does the myth perpetuate itself that men in long term relationships are horn dogs? Women want it a lot more then it is being put out there. Delusion. Pure delusion this married or long term relationship man is not getting enough. Sounds to me like they need to pick up their game and get back in the batting cage and start warming up for the lady! :-)

[goldstategop]

Marriage is the toughest role in the world and it takes a strong couple to make it last.

[GOP Poet]

Yes. Great points. Well said!

[Snurple]

Thats exactly what the bible says.

[GOP Poet]

Once again a great point! You sound like a very wise person.

[goldstategop]

From my experience, my ex surprised me before I had to leave. Its not just a guy who can be a horn dog. It was unforgettable, that's all I'll say here. ;-)

[goldstategop]

If a man won't get in the mood, a woman can take him away from the beer and the football game on TV. With the right incentive...

[goldstategop]

Coming home to the same face every day for a lifetime can be a good thing for some people... and bore others stiff. I bet the latter category is what accounts for those who are divorced in this country.

[GOP Poet]

LOL. :-). Love is crazy aye? Some women are full of surprises—positive at times and at others negative. May you be blessed with plenty of the former :-D.

[dadgum]

Nothing quite like a good spur of the moment Quickie.

She may not be exactly in the mood at the start, but she usually is pretty soon ...

20 years and still loving it.

[goldstategop]

When two people find a connection, it flows like electricity between them. It can be beautiful and no one knows why they are star-crossed.

[Snurple]

I was blessed. my wife was really good looking and really sweet, she still is after 25 years. :)

[malkee]

If all they want is a one night stand, looks aren’t much of a concern, either. I’m talking about the women men marry. I repeatedly at work have had men complain to me about their wives. And I tell them I don’t want to hear it. Either they have chosen wives who are innately selfish (love to spend money, much of which goes to beautifying themselves), or else the women are too tired from working out, on top of all their other duties. I once asked a man what he would do if his wife no longer worked out so she had more time for him but got fat in the process. He had no answer.

[goldstategop]

Its a good idea to refrain from making love only in the bedroom. Too many couples just get stuck in a rut and then the best part of what they have together withers on the vine. Use your imagination... and take it alfresco, as long as you are sure no one can see you and the police can't cite you. Have fun!

[goldstategop]

Expecting your better half to look and be as good as they did when they were 20, is stretching things. Enjoy the changes for what they are and appreciate them.

[DieHard the Hunter]

> But every man on earth simply wishes a woman is turned on for no other reason than he wants her right then and there.

Not me. Might be true for some guys, dunno.

[malkee]

Alas, I have no better half. Perhaps it will happen someday.

[GOP Poet]

If all they want is a one night stand, looks aren’t much of a concern, either. I’m talking about the women men marry. I repeatedly at work have had men complain to me about their wives. And I tell them I don’t want to hear it. Either they have chosen wives who are innately selfish (love to spend money, much of which goes to beautifying themselves), or else the women are too tired from working out, on top of all their other duties. I once asked a man what he would do if his wife no longer worked out so she had more time for him but got fat in the process. He had no answer.

Now that was a darn good question. You are a smart one.

[Yaelle]

Dennis, maybe she’s just not that into you.

[goldstategop]

That's true of guys. It would come as a revelation to women that men can be driven by nothing more than than lust. Its not the same as love, which is why male nature can separate the two - sex and love - to an extent unfathomable to the female of the species.