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'Becoming a grandmother at 29 is my worst nightmare' says mum
Daily Mail ^ | 5:40 PM on 27th February 2011 | By Daily Mail Reporter

Posted on 02/27/2011 1:36:00 PM PST by Niuhuru

"'Becoming a grandmother at 29 is my worst nightmare' says mum after discovering her 14-year-old daughter is pregnant"

A woman who is set to become Britain's youngest grandmother at 29 said it was 'her worst nightmare' when she discovered her 14-year-old daughter was pregnant.

Kelly John said she always hoped Tia would not repeat her mistake and become pregnant at 14.

But after getting over the shock, the grandmother-to-be has vowed to do 'everything' to bring up the new baby.

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; United Kingdom
KEYWORDS: babies; baby; britain; chavs; children; culture; daughter; future; grandmother; job; lifestyle; mom; mother; parents; pregnant; sex; singlemom; teen; teenager; welfare
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Yeeks. And to think this is actually happening more and more in Britain.
1 posted on 02/27/2011 1:36:09 PM PST by Niuhuru
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To: Niuhuru

Do the math. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.


2 posted on 02/27/2011 1:39:02 PM PST by MAexile (Bats left, votes right)
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I’m beginning to be all the more thankful I went through school during the eighties and wasn’t exposed to this stuff as a normal thing. PIty the mother didn’t stay married to the father.


3 posted on 02/27/2011 1:40:56 PM PST by Niuhuru (The Internet is the digital AIDS; adapting and successfully destroying the MSM host.)
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Gosh, and here I am, not a grandmother at 44. You can’t just “hope,” lady: you have to raise your daughter to value chastity. If you don’t, she won’t.


4 posted on 02/27/2011 1:41:55 PM PST by Tax-chick (Some brothers have humongous monsters, and some don't. Live with it.)
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To: MAexile

No kidding - I bet her mother said the same thing!


5 posted on 02/27/2011 1:42:23 PM PST by libertarian27 (Ingsoc: Department of Life, Department of Liberty, Department of Happiness)
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To: Niuhuru

Well, at least the mum didn’t shuffle her off to Marie Stopes for an abortion. And the mother/grandmother seems to fear that her daughter is in for a struggle, which is a good thing. At least she’s in touch with reality. Prayers for them that they get their own dysfunctional lives straightened out & do right by the baby.


6 posted on 02/27/2011 1:43:57 PM PST by surroundedbyblue
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To: Niuhuru

Out of 6 generations, wonder how many are on the dole? At least it says the GM-to-be has a job. But she’s also got a good chance of being a great-grandmother in her 40s.


7 posted on 02/27/2011 1:45:23 PM PST by GnuHere
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To: Niuhuru

I certainly hope everything works out well for them. But one thing both of them might consider doing is finding a husband.

Although I guess, from what I’ve read, British men aren’t the marrying kind anymore, now that the welfare state does their job and leaves them free to sleep around and impregnate anything that stands still long enough.


8 posted on 02/27/2011 1:45:43 PM PST by livius
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To: surroundedbyblue

In many situations like this, one could propose that they consider adoption, in the best interest of the child. But in Britain, adoption placements favor singles, unmarried couples, and gays, so how would that help?


9 posted on 02/27/2011 1:46:55 PM PST by Tax-chick (Some brothers have humongous monsters, and some don't. Live with it.)
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To: Niuhuru

A simple aspirin could have prevented this.

All she had to do was put it between her knees and held it there - till she was 20 or so...

NOT!!!! - I REPEAT NOT!!! - MY PROBLEM!!!!!

I’m sick of two things:

All the angst people are constantly trying to heap on me because of other people’s mistakes and
Flo, the broad that sells insurance, because I’m convinced she’s the anti-Christ and is from the netherworld...

;-)


10 posted on 02/27/2011 1:47:39 PM PST by djf (Dems and liberals: Let's redefine "marriage". We already redefined "natural born citizen".)
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To: livius
and impregnate anything that stands still long enough.

And I thought the brits only used the "missionary position".

11 posted on 02/27/2011 1:48:00 PM PST by USS Alaska (Nuke the terrorist savages, in honor of Standing Wolf.)
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At least it’s not a future Johnny Jihad. Lets hear it for a +1 in the Anglo-Saxon column.

/s sorta


12 posted on 02/27/2011 1:48:45 PM PST by AFreeBird
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To: MAexile

FROM THE ARTICLE: Kelly John said she always hoped Tia would not repeat her mistake and become pregnant at 14.


13 posted on 02/27/2011 1:52:05 PM PST by EDINVA
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From the article: Tia's unemployed father Shem still lives six doors away and has a newborn 16 week old son with his 21-year-old partner. Kelly John lives with boyfriend Carl Zaccardelli, Tia, and three other children from a marriage that collapsed.

But she "hoped" her daughter wouldn't get pregnant as a teen. That's like "hoping" you can jump off a building without hitting the ground.

14 posted on 02/27/2011 1:56:00 PM PST by Tax-chick (Some brothers have humongous monsters, and some don't. Live with it.)
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“...this is actually happening more and more in Britain.”

Are you kidding? Looked at any major US city lately? Or not even lately. In 1984 I was checking out of a DC hospital, after giving birth to twins. A group rushed past me to the parking lot. On the return of just a nurse and aide, I heard the nurse say “the mother is 13, so the grandmother will raise him.”

“Him” would now be 27 and may well be on his way to becoming a grandfather, if he’s survived the streets. You can ‘hope’ not, but the odds are against him, and were from the day he was born.


15 posted on 02/27/2011 2:01:27 PM PST by EDINVA
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To: Niuhuru

HEY!

At least she waited until she was 14.


16 posted on 02/27/2011 2:03:59 PM PST by ROCKLOBSTER (Celebrate Republicans Freed the Slaves Month)
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For those who don't read the story:

Wonder what other families in that town are as 'prolific'!

17 posted on 02/27/2011 2:04:28 PM PST by brityank (The more I learn about the Constitution, the more I realise this Government is UNconstitutional !!)
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To: Niuhuru

Just following her mum’s example.


19 posted on 02/27/2011 2:16:20 PM PST by Leftism is Mentally Deranged (Liberalism is against human nature. Practicing liberalism is detrimental to your mental stability.)
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Here is a birth control penny.

Place that behind your left knee and hold it in place with the front of your right knee.

Hand out some to your kids.

20 posted on 02/27/2011 2:21:08 PM PST by mylife (Opinions: $1.00 ~ Halfbaked: 50c)
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