I vote for people based on one thing whether they have shown they will uphold the Oath of office. Personal Relationships aren't mentioned in the oath of office.
See you are still having a problem. YOU WANT PEOPLE IN OFFICE THAT MEDDLE IN STUFF THEY HAVE NO BUSINESS BEING INVOLVED IN.
You are not Conservative. You are just the Republican version of Liberal Activist.
You want the government to regulate people's personal lives.
That is what I try to tell people about libertarians, it is a philosophy that they support, at all levels, school board, city, county, state, and federal.