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Should We Be Allowed to Choose the Sexual Orientation of Our Children?
PS MAg (Pacific Standard) ^ | October 17, 2013 | Alice Dreger

Posted on 10/20/2013 3:50:56 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o

[Imagine a prenatal test that, like the one for trisomy 21 (Down's syndrome), could show a predisposition to gayness.]

In a New York magazine piece, “The Science of Gaydar,” writer David France looks at the growing scientific evidence for innate differences between gay and straight people. France ends by gazing toward the future, and asks the question, “What if prenatal tests were able to show a predisposition to gayness?” Well, France reports, “[Northwestern University psychological professor] Michael Bailey, for one, isn’t troubled by the moral implications any more than he would oppose fetal screens for potential birth defects, though he quickly adds his personal belief that homosexuality is ‘a good’ on par with heterosexuality.”

Bailey espouses a definite Seinfeldian “not that there’s anything wrong with that” attitude toward homosexuality. In a paper he published on the subject with lawyer Aaron Greenberg in 2001, he wrote: “Because homosexuality causes no direct harm to others (other than those who take offense at it on irrational and/or inhumane grounds) and because homosexual behavior is crucial to the ability of homosexual people to enjoy their lives (as heterosexual behavior is to heterosexuals), homosexuality should not be morally condemned or proscribed.” But, Greenberg and Bailey say, it’s wrong to tell parents they can’t select for (or against) a heterosexual or homosexual predisposition in their children.

Greenberg and Bailey take a libertarian view of the matter—they believe the right of parents to make these kinds of decisions is paramount, “even assuming, as we do, that homosexuality is entirely acceptable morally.” Their point is that, “allowing parents, by means morally unproblematic in themselves, to select for heterosexuality would be morally acceptable” because “allowing parents to select their children’s sexual orientation would further parents’ freedom to raise the sort of children they wish to raise and because selection for heterosexuality may benefit parents and children and is unlikely to cause significant harm.” It ought to be the case that defending the rights of parents to use this technology doesn’t ultimately undermine queer rights, but it seems hard to believe that in practice it won’t lead to support of the idea that one ought to try not to have a gay child.

Greenberg and Bailey’s paper is quite interesting—interesting enough that, when my class of smart, thoughtful, and generally progressive Medical Humanities and Bioethics masters students discussed it with the authors earlier this year, many of the students who began in agreement with the paper ended up disagreeing with it, and vice versa. I admit I wavered, but I didn’t ultimately flip; I started with, and still have, several problems with the paper.

The first is, I suppose, a general problem I have with libertarianism: It’s selfish. And I don’t like selfish philosophies. (I guess I’m selfish that way.) Greenberg and Bailey seem to assume that the larger social effects of individual decisions like the ones they are supporting are not really a pertinent moral issue, because we should just take care of our own individual needs, the neighbors be damned. What happens to gay strangers once we offer “selection” against more people like them is not the issue when I’m deciding whether to professionally justify or even personally use this theoretic technology—unless that happens to be what I feel like troubling myself about. Greenberg and Bailey just don’t spend much energy worrying actively (in their paper or in follow-up discussions) about what effect defending the right to use this technology could have on queer people and their rights.

Now, to be fair, they may not worry about that in part because they just disagree with me that they are effectively undermining queer people and their rights by arguing that this technology would be morally acceptable. In an email to a sex research discussion group, Bailey argued against me: “I think it is possible both to support the message that homosexual people are as good as heterosexual people and to support parents' freedom to disagree with that message and to act on their disagreement.” But I think he’s naïve here.

Sure, it ought to be the case that defending the rights of parents to use this technology doesn’t ultimately undermine queer rights, but it seems hard to believe that in practice it won’t lead to support of the idea that one ought to try not to have a gay child—just as in practice the prenatal test for trisomy 21 (Down's syndrome) has led to a general attitude (at least among the vast majority of my very “progressive” childbearing acquaintances) that one ought to try not to have a child with trisomy 21. I have a friend whose young son has trisomy 21. This friend was out and about with her son one day when another woman looked at her and her son and—recognizing that the son has Down's syndrome—scolded my friend with the question, “Didn’t you get the test?!” I can fully imagine a scenario where, 30 years from now, a woman tells a friend her son has come out as gay, only to have the friend respond, “Didn’t you get the test?!” Could we really imagine that offering such a test would have no negative impact on how an already-homophobic culture views people who are gay (and their parents, for that matter)? In that sense, can we really imagine that supporting parents’ right to choose against homosexuality supports the message that gay people are as good as straight people?

Had Greenberg and Bailey bothered to look at the substantial literature on prenatal testing and disability rights, I think they might have been less sanguine in their assumptions about the social meaning of prenatal testing for conditions that typically become identities. They might have understood something more about the social model of disability, and how being gay could easily be construed as a disability—except, as it turns out, one that has already been explicitly excluded by the Americans With Disability Act.

Now, I should note that, because they maintain a “not that there’s anything wrong with that” stance—and, knowing them, I really do believe they are both fully comfortable with and supportive of queer people—Greenberg and Bailey argue that it would also be fine for would-be parents to use such technologies to choose predisposition for homosexuality over predisposition for heterosexuality. And, indeed, I can imagine some parents making that choice—gay parents and even some straight people like myself. (I’d be happy to have more gay people in the world, because I think it would further advance gay rights, and I’ve always thought I’d make a much better mother-in-law to a gay man than the alternatives.) But let’s get real: Most of the choices made in such circumstances would likely be against homosexuality, just as most choices about congenital deafness and trisomy 21 and achondroplasia turn out to be against, not for. You can argue that homosexuality is different than these conditions because it doesn’t “harm” the child, but many people have the same sorts of non-evidence-based fears about the “harm” a child will face from being gay as they have about the “harm” that will come to a child from being deaf or having trisomy 21 or achondroplasia (more ways in which homosexuality starts to look like disability). Moreover, can you really, in this culture, treat homosexuality as a preventable genetic condition and not expect people to see it as … a preventable genetic condition?

Thus, while I think Greenberg and Bailey are right in generally defending would-be parents’ rights to choose reproductive technologies, I also can’t help but suspect that their vigorous defense of this option at some level feels like (apparently unwittingly) enabling homophobic bigotry. Certainly I defend Greenberg and Bailey’s right to say what they want, and to think what they want, but I think it is tough for them to claim they’re not potentially contributing to an undermining of queer rights.

In France’s article, Bailey is quoted as saying, “There’s no reason to ban, or become hysterical about, selecting for heterosexuality. … That’s precisely what parenting is about: shaping the children to have traits the parents value.” I find I side with Simon LeVay, a gay sex researcher who has, like Bailey, long been studying the biological origins of sexual orientation, and who shared his views with me in an email: “I agree with Mike that we shouldn't ban it. Because that would be allowing governments to make decisions about our reproductive choices, which isn't a good idea…. But I reserve the right to become hysterical about it.”


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; Philosophy
KEYWORDS: downs; gaydar; homosexualagenda; lgbt; moralabsolutes; murder
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To: DoughtyOne

Thanks. I’m still learning.


41 posted on 10/20/2013 6:05:16 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("Patience you must have, my young padawan!" - Yoda)
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To: driftdiver

I agree with that. That’s the major problem with fatherless homes and the like.


42 posted on 10/20/2013 6:12:40 PM PDT by DoughtyOne (People will retain the power to control the Government, or it will retain the power to control them.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Just another excuse to treat human beings like property: Democrats did that with blacks in the 19th century and continued to do it to the unborn in the 20th century and beyond.

Repellant indeed.


43 posted on 10/20/2013 6:41:59 PM PDT by SoFloFreeper
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To: Tax-chick

Not knowing the genetic control factor, if any, “further the respondent sayeth not”.

Or, as they say in the South, “Mother raised no fools.”


44 posted on 10/20/2013 7:18:04 PM PDT by GladesGuru (Islam Delenda Est - Because of what Islam is and because of what Muslims do.)
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To: dhs12345

I have wondered how long transexuals live. What with the mutilating operations and the powerful opposite sex hormones that they have to take regularly so that they will not return to their original sexual form, it just seems like they are soing some real damage to their bodies forcing them to take a form that they naturaly do not have. Since there are more transexuals now, it will be interesting to see what will happen to them in a couple of decades. Some of them are in the public spotlight such as Chastity (Chaz) Bono so we my be seeing their ongoing soap operas on our television screens.


45 posted on 10/20/2013 7:19:52 PM PDT by cradle of freedom
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To: cradle of freedom

Good point. It can’t be healthy. Plus the constant maintenance of shots, numerous visits to the doctors and eventually a surgeon.

It seems to me to be an obsession. Very odd in my opinion and sexuality probably has less to do with it than some underlying issue.

Michael Jackson might be a good example. He was obsessed with his appearance to the point where the doctors had mutilated his body beyond recognition. And after all of the many surgeries, he still wasn’t happy. Apparently, whatever underlying issue he had was never addressed. Just my opinion.


46 posted on 10/20/2013 7:40:40 PM PDT by dhs12345
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To: Stepan12
I just read recently that the founder of the Italian Barilla pasta company was being interviewed on tv. He was asked why there were no same sex couples in the Barilla ads. Mr. Barilla said that he liked to have a traditional family image. KABOOM!!! Gay Mount Vesuvius exploded all over Mr. Barilla. He is now on his hands and knees begging for forgiveness but they will not forgive.

This is a Alinsky trick that you will see more and more of. If you do not give the “right” answer you will be sent out to the outermost darkness where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.

47 posted on 10/20/2013 7:44:36 PM PDT by cradle of freedom
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To: Mrs. Don-o
Are SSRI's going to be used to stave off female homosexuality? There is certainly a correlation between lesbianism and depression. A causes B? or B causes A? or C causes both A and B? I don't know.

I have long thought that in some cases, and some cases only, that gay behavior is an adrenalin-producing self-medication some teens use to counteract severe depression. Political correctness says that homophobia makes gay teens suicidal, but it could be the reverse -- the gay issue is not a cause of depression, but a symptom of depression.

Unfortunately, between the drumbeat of propaganda, the bullying and the lockstep demanded by law of psychologists these days, anyone who would try to advance this theory is pretty much hamstrung.

48 posted on 10/20/2013 7:44:50 PM PDT by Albion Wilde ("Remember... the first revolutionary was Satan."--Russian Orthodox Archpriest Dmitry Smirnov)
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To: dhs12345
Isn't it something like anorexia? The anorexic believe that by losing enough weight they will be happy but it turns out that their problem is an emotional one not a weight problem.

Back in the early fifties their was a famous transsexual named Kristine Jorgensen. This person was a celebrity for a while. His/her story was in the newspapers and he/she was on television. Looking back, you can see that even back then they were trying to push deviancy on the population. This was only a few years after the Kinsey Report.

49 posted on 10/20/2013 8:09:35 PM PDT by cradle of freedom
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To: Albion Wilde
I see exactly what youmean.

The PC gag on millions of mouths has made it hard to "Speak Truth" to prejudice, perversion, or power.

50 posted on 10/21/2013 8:18:27 AM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("Patience you must have, my young padawan!" - Yoda)
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To: cradle of freedom
Certainly begs the question. And if people are objective (from all sides), then an answer might be available.

However, I am skeptical. The whole global warming thing has been an agenda driven joke. I question objectivity.

And the whole gay/AIDS thing is definitely agenda driven. In a massive way. And yes, I lump gay and AIDS together because, at least here in States, it is A LOT more common among gays. Of course, you knew that. Oops. I spoke the truth! The emperor has no clothes.

51 posted on 10/21/2013 8:37:24 AM PDT by dhs12345
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Leftists are insane. Pure and simple.


52 posted on 10/21/2013 8:38:16 AM PDT by GeronL
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Maybe a little, but from what I’ve seen you don’t need to learn that much more. :^)


53 posted on 10/21/2013 1:53:19 PM PDT by DoughtyOne (People will retain the power to control the Government, or it will retain the power to control them.)
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To: dhs12345

Many of these agendas seem to be coming from the United Nations and why shouldn’t it, isn’t the UN going to be the future world government?


54 posted on 10/21/2013 2:31:14 PM PDT by cradle of freedom
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To: dhs12345
"Michael Jackson might be a good example. He was obsessed with his appearance to the point where the doctors had mutilated his body beyond recognition. And after all of the many surgeries, he still wasn’t happy. Apparently, whatever underlying issue he had was never addressed. Just my opinion.

Exactly. Those doctors who doped him up, cut him up, propped him up for his public appearances,, sent him mutilated and miserable to his grave: they should be facing criminal charges.

As should all these castrators who call themselves "sex-reassignment" surgeons.

55 posted on 10/21/2013 2:42:27 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("See something, say something.")
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To: dhs12345
Actually imprinting homosexuality by homosexuals was a standard psychological theory before the DSM III-R. It's one of the reasons so many institutions forbade homsexual contact with children. It wasn't dropped from the diagnostic reference because of any new research; the politics simply changed.

Obviously this would be difficult to study under controlled conditions, although there is (was) a lot of anecdotal evidence. It also explains why identical twins raised under more or less identical circumstances in the same home choose different sexual orientations, although there could be lots of other reasons for that.

The genetic theory has only gained currency because homosexuals realized that as long as their lifestyle was a more or less ordinary perversion arising entirely by choice and habit they could not lay claim to the bonanza of special civil rights protections of a grievance society. Unfortunately, there is no evidence that for females it's true, and no compelling evidence for males that the genetic correlation is determinative in any strong sense.

It's a mild form of mental illness that we don't as yet have very effective broad-spectrum treatments for. Like most people suffering from mental illness, most homsexuals don't believe there's anything wrong with their minds. Sadly, in the current political climate, even if a treatment becomes available, they won't be allowed to use it.

56 posted on 10/21/2013 4:42:28 PM PDT by FredZarguna (The sequel, thoroughly pointless, derivative, and boring was like all James Cameron "films.")
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To: FredZarguna
Interesting.

Also one would think that if it were genetic, the fact that gays are less likely procreate means that the odds are stacked against them and their “genetic” trait.

And eventually, after several generations and through natural selection, the homosexual gene would become nonexistent.

57 posted on 10/21/2013 6:36:15 PM PDT by dhs12345
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To: dhs12345
Right, but remember a number of genetic traits continue to propagate throughout time despite their intuitive unlikeliness of transmission. Trisomy 21, referenced elsewhere on this thread (Down Syndrome) is a "genetic" disorder although no specific gene is involved. Its victims are typically unlikely to reproduce, yet it has not gone away.

However, there are problems with a theory that homosexuality could be the result of structural defects introduced in the haploids of the mother or father: we simply don't see individuals with identical genetic material raised apart as being 100% correlated. As a matter of fact, in the case of identical female twins raised apart, there are no known cases where one female lesbian has a lesbian twin. None.

58 posted on 10/21/2013 10:01:19 PM PDT by FredZarguna (The sequel, thoroughly pointless, derivative, and boring was like all James Cameron "films.")
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