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Posted on 12/30/2013 6:40:57 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet
“I can’t stop thinking about your ‘How do you want to be loved?’ question,” my student Wilson said to me two weeks ago. “And I was just wondering, when you asked yourself that question, what did you come up with?”
I teach at Vassar College, an educational institution where resources, need-blind admissions, multisyllabic disengagement, cocaine and curious students are in relative abundance. This semester, I challenged myself to do more than move my 60 students beyond traditional “either/or” binaries of feeling or thinking, critical analysis or creative writing, intellectualizing or confessing, radical or capitalist praxis. I was less invested in cultivating students who could critically interrogate text, faithfully imitate text, or courageously innovate text, and more concerned with making sure my students and I left the classroom, sentimental as it sounds, better at dreaming and loving unreasonably.
Initially, I sourced my pedagogical shift to the freedom that accompanies publishing two bluesy black books in one year. But on November 3, a day after Renisha McBride was murdered with a shotgun blast through a screen door outside of Detroit, I realized that my pedagogical shift could be sourced to the reasonable murder of Trayvon Martin.
There’s always reason to doubt the vitality and perspective of black boys. In a nation dedicated to death, deception and the mastery of disengagement, it is reasonable for a young black boy armed with iced tea and Skittles to be murdered on his way to watch an All-Star game. It’s reasonable for a jury of folks who have no idea how to love black children to find that child guilty of being a nigger. It’s reasonable for a nation of cowards to treat the courage, fear and rhetorical dynamism of Rachel Jeantel like niggerish gibberish.
But this is just part of our story.
Trayvon Martin was a real, fleshy black American boy. Had he not been murdered, like most of us, he likely would have bobbed his heads to spectacular disses of black women and black femininity. He probably would have found it hard, and damn near impossible, to invest in unreasonable love of black girls.
This is just part of our story.
I don’t know the rest. But I do know that Trayvon Martin could have taken his disrespectful profiling and beating, like a reasonable black boy. He could have lowered his head, said I’m sorry for frightening you, crazy-ass cracker, and muted the crazy-making treble in his chest. Instead, he [allegedly] unreasonably swung back. He [allegedly] connected. And he tried to live. Unreasonably.
When my student Wilson asked me how I want to be loved, I was afraid to tell that I want to be loved by an unreasonable love that loves me enough to say and mean that Trayvon Martin, Rachel Jeantel, you and I are beautiful and worthy of second chances and healthy choices.
This is just part of our story.
I want to be loved by an unreasonable love that refuses to accept poverty and sexual abuse as reasonable.
I want to be loved by an unreasonable love that loves black art and black communities enough to insist that black artists stop dismantling black women’s bodies, hearts and minds for profit. I want to be loved by an unreasonable love that loves black art and black communities enough to insist that every letter, color, word, shade, scene, rhyme, paragraph, photograph and step be rooted in a textured exploration of unreasonable black love.
I want to love and be loved by an unreasonable imaginative love that swings back and insists on superb universal health care, progressive tax rates that eliminate all rich folks exemptions, and mandatory courses on Intersectional Love and Discourse in every middle school, high school, college, church and community center in this country.
I want to be loved by an unreasonable love that refuses to conflate honesty with transformation and hard work with revelatory work, a love that expects unreasonable love from police, teachers, doctors, politicians, presidents and CEOs.
I want to be loved by an unreasonable love unafraid to reckon and fight and listen and share before going to bed, an unreasonable love that gets turned on by periodically turning off crippling pathologies and the Internet.
This is just part of our story.
I want to be loved unreasonably by an unreasonable love because we’ve nearly drowned in the poison of reasonable loving, reasonable liking, reasonable living, reasonable essays, reasonable art and reasonable political discourse.
I want to be loved by an unreasonable love that knows the only reason we’re still here, breathing, imagining, fighting, wandering and wondering is because of the unreasonable work of a small but committed group of black southern unreasonable lovers.
I want to be loved by an unreasonable love that loves itself enough to leave me if I insist on loving it reasonably, an unreasonable love that tells its mama, its father, its friends, its co-workers, its auntie, its mentors, its mentees, its lover, its grandmother, that the reasonable era of black American death and destruction ended in 2013.
This is just part of our story, but I want the rest of the story to be written by reliable black characters, black activists, black parents, black children, black aunties, black uncles and black authors ready to demolish American reasonable doubt with waves and waves of unreasonable black American love.
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Kiese Laymon is a black southern writer, born and raised in Jackson, Mississippi. He is the author of “Long Division” and “How To Slowly Kill Yourself and Others in America” (Agate Bolden). He is a contributing editor at Gawker and frequently blogs at kieselaymon.com. Laymon is an associate professor of English and co-director of Africana Studies at Vassar College.
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You left out the Barf Alert...
Sometimes, the subject and source should be enough by itself.
>>Sometimes, the subject and source should be enough by itself.<<
True, true.
Translation: “Give me stuff.”
Geeze where is the BARF Alert!
What a sled load of BS.
The authors pic id next to the word ‘blather’ in the dictionary.
Move over Al and JJ, competition for race baiter El Supremo is up for grabs.
Supernovamegabarfapaloozaadinfinitum.
Wow.
What a complete load of pseudo-profound gibberish. It’s a whole lot of fancy oration that in the end says almost nothing of any real substance. It takes me right back to my University days, where speeches/lectures like this would have me feeling like my eyes were turning into jelly and oozing out of my skull. However, all the young, white hipster girls with their blonde dreadlocks, soy lattés, Ché Guevara t-shirts and Palestinian Keffiyehs would be hanging on every word, and blinking bovine bedroom eyes at the ‘amazingly enlightened’ Professor.
He may be as dumb as he looks..
He needs to catch up on the new rule of grammar, which requires a comma between the penultimate item in a series and the word “and.”
And based on his writing, he's a writer who doesn't get laid.
The night TM died GZ did not break any laws, Travon Martin was the only person who broke any law that night during their conflict.
A carefully chosen jury decided after much deliberation that George Zimmerman was not guilty of murdering Travon Martin.
To state as fact that TM was murdered is an outright and bold faced lie.
Blacks seem to believe they cam make up their own facts. They are entitled to their opinions but not their own facts.
Kiese Laymon On Rape Culture + My Queer Addition
http://blaqueerpozitivity.tumblr.com/post/47066515325/kiese-laymon-on-rape-culture-my-queer-addition
As I read this tripe I thought, “Ten pounds in a five pound bag.”
How about, "How do you want to have lived?"
How about settling for: not assaulting people with unreasonable violence so you don't get reasonably shot in self-defense?
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