Posted on 05/17/2014 5:00:41 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska
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Howdy, Kathy! (((hugs)))
You’re very welcome...hope you and your mom have a blessed Sunday!
Thanks! Right now we are eating “birthday” cake. My Dad would have been 91 today.
"Of course not!"
She said he has been involved with her every day since she was 15, even during WWII. (And she turned 89 in February.) She wants to remember him that way. I've taken her out there once, but there is no way to get her to his headstone without a lot of help. She has pictures.
He is with his fellow patriots.
Aww...that’s a sweet tradition! Happy Birthday, Kathy’s Dad!
I can understand her reluctance...it makes it so “real” when you see the headstones. Her memories are much more alive to her than just a stone.
I say just let her remember him as she would like. :)
God rest his hero soul.......
I told her it doesn’t bother me at all. I’ve told her time and again that it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks about how she chooses to cope. One day at a time for us.
Every day she tells me about “talking” with him. She says she knows when he’s not happy about something. Right after he died I found a really good picture of him before he started downhill and she asked if I could print it out for her. So that picture is in her office and a smaller one on the mantle with a little handmade and beautifully crafted (by my brother-in-law) urn and some of his ashes. They are good memories of how he was. That is a good thing for my Mom, and what she needs.
Love Family Circus.....all things we’ve all been through/heard/have happen. LOL!
Good morning, Seven, and a Blessed Lord’s Day to you and yours.
#1...that didn’t take long!
G’Day, Janey, and welcome “back”. ((HUGS))
A Blessed Lord’s Day to you and yours.
Well...she is photogenic!
G-d Bless you good, ExTexasRedhead....
What a great link to a great diatribe by Judge Pirro! She is so right!!
Thanks, unique, for the logo.
((HUGS))Good morning, LUV W. How's it going?
((HUGS))Good morning, Kathy. How’s it going?
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Welcome Troops, Veterans, Families, and Allies!
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Welcome Troops, Veterans, Families, and Allies!
God Bless You and Keep You Safe.
Thanks, unique, for our troop blessing.
Welcome Troops, Veterans, Families, and Allies!
God Bless You and Keep You Safe.
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