” These men are PREDATORS. “
Which men are? How do you tell the difference?
There seems to be more of this among the, er, “Amish.”
I’m not a man-hater, so don’t get me wrong. That’s why I didn’t date while raising my kids. Oh, wait. I was MARRIED, LOL! How old-fashioned of me. My husband didn’t let me meet his son (and the nephews we ended up raising) until after we dated for close to a year. (Granted, he had other character flaws which led to our divorce, but being a parent and putting his son first wasn’t one of them.)
I don’t know how you tell. But, there certainly is a pattern to these cases, which is frustrating. And you don’t get a second chance. And as an added bonus, Mom has to live with this for the rest of her days.
Err on the side of caution when kids are involved. Always.
You tell us, how do you tell the difference.