[southern rock]

Just because a woman has a *baby* doesn’t mean that she’s easy or a slut. At the age of 43, she has only slept with one man and that man was her husband and is the father of her child.

Having a baby doesn't mean anything, but a woman still playing hard to get in her 40's is narcissistic and delusional to the extreme. What does she think it's made of? Gold?

[Marie]

“Having a baby doesn’t mean anything, but a woman still playing hard to get in her 40’s is narcissistic and delusional to the extreme. What does she think it’s made of? Gold?”

I’m smiling sadly as I read your post.

Believing that sex is sacred and should only be enjoyed within the sacrament of marriage is ‘playing hard to get’?

No, dear. She doesn’t think that she’s made of gold or that she’s ‘all that’. She’s a humble Woman.

But she refuses to bend her morality.

Men like you make it a sad thing to be a woman.

A very sad thing.

[Tired of Taxes]

Having a baby doesn't mean anything, but a woman still playing hard to get in her 40's is narcissistic and delusional to the extreme. What does she think it's made of? Gold?

Maybe she doesn't want to be used and dumped, only to end up with some kind of disease.

And maybe she is serious about her Christian faith, too, unlike so many other people.

[Night Hides Not]

...but a woman still playing hard to get in her 40's is narcissistic and delusional to the extreme.

My wife is one of seven daughters. I've got a couple of SIL's that never married, and they are PITAs to the max.

All seven take after their mother, who was the hard-driving matriarch of the family. She had to be that way, she had 10 kids, and my FIL was always working double shifts to keep food on the table.

Many years ago, my wife really got on my nerves while we were in the car. Finally in exasperation, I purposely called her by her mother's name.

I got her attention, but I haven't done that since...lol.