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No, We're Not That Family (Italian-Americans mad at Olive Garden)
Opnionjournal ^ | July 26, 2002 | Victorino Matus

Posted on 07/26/2002 12:51:26 PM PDT by stands2reason

Edited on 04/23/2004 12:04:40 AM PDT by Jim Robinson. [history]

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To: ZULU
Yeah, like all those Irishmen who celebrate being Irish or part Irish and give their kids such all American names as Sean, Colleen, etc.

Equally annoying. I dislike all displays of ethnicity. And before you ask, no, I am not some 20th generation WASP. I have an ethnic backround myself. I just don't discuss it. Not that I'm ashamed, I just like being an American, period.

321 posted on 07/30/2002 5:15:39 PM PDT by southern rock
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To: southern rock
There's nothing wrong with being a twentieth generation White Anglo-Saxon Protestant - I'm white and Protestant myself.

Like you I consider myself a 100% American first last and always. However, when somebody starts attacking Americans based on their ehtnic background, expecially when it coincides with mine, I get aggravated.

If you really think about it, just about everything in America is a product of somehwere else.

Just an example - nothing more American than Coon hunting, right? The Plott Hound is the official state dog of North Carolina, a bear and coonhound. It was brought to this Country from Germany by a German, Jonathan Plott. The Pennsylvania Longrifle is a product of German gunsmiths and German gunsmithing traditions. The banjo derives from an African musical instrument. Southern Appalachian folk music and blue grass has its roots in Scottish and Irish folk Music.

I agree with you that people who go around being professional Irishmen or professionial Italians, with the flags of foreign countries on their vehicles, etc. are offensive. The only flags that fly from my house or on my vehicle are American ones, particularly historic ones.

I don't think people should congregate in ethnic communities either. This is America and being American involves becoming a part of the overall culture, not trying to retain an old world identity and isolation.

But, for the most part, the longer people are here, the less most of them identify with other countries and the more heterogenious their genetic background - the more American they become. The children of Hispanics and Koreans will eat fast foods, wear jeans and talk back to their parents while they play computer games and baseball.

I really thought the initial post was a silly one, which is the reason I read it. But I was offended by your comments which seemed to single out Americans of Italian background. Italian Americans are always pictured as Mafia type idiots who speak with Brooklyn accents and eat spaghetti. The fact is the overwhelming number of Italian immigrants earned a living with pick and shovel or mason's trowel like most other first generation immigrant groups at the bottom of the social ladder, and without bilingual programs or affirmative action assistance. Yet today their descendants are also found in the professions and hold white collar jobs.

I hate the Mafia and everything these punks stand for. They are a national disgrace and a special disgrace from the standpoint of law-abiding Americans of Italian ancestry. I wish they would all drop dead, and so did all of my parents and grandparents who were of Italian extraction. I don't find the Sopranos funny, and don't view the Godfather as a role model. George Washington, Ronert E. Lee, Stonewall Jackson and Daniel Boone are my idols, not Vito Corleone, etc.

People can't change their appearance and to change your father's name is somehow viewed by most people as dishonorable, unless it sounds offensive or is exceptionally difficult ot pronounce. Hence, people of non-English ancestry can frequently be readily identified as Italian or Polish or German, etc. The reason a lot of these ethnic groups, congregated in ethnic communities was due to initial hostility by older American groups, an inability to communicate well in English, and homesickness for the world and scoiety they left behind.

Earlier immigrant groups like the Scots-Irish and even English followed this practise also, even to the point where people from say, Essex in England congregated in the same settlements as their fellow immigrsants from Essex, Welshmen in Welsh settlements, etc., and, as time went on, they integrated and ceased thinking of themselves in terms other than as American.

'Nuff said.

322 posted on 07/31/2002 4:18:10 AM PDT by ZULU
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To: goodieD
what about Kantor's off melrose?
323 posted on 12/18/2002 1:48:05 PM PST by ffusco
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To: southern rock
Mmmm... I predict you have had a mullet, and drive a really big p/u w/ KC running lites and a pissing Calvin sticker and listen to CCR when you aren't fixing your mama's trailer. You have tatoos, drink canned beer and yer girlfriend w/ fake nails is saving up for a boob job.

as an American Of Italian decent who lives in Texas I just wanted to show you how degrading it is to stereotype us wops! And BTW We found this country and named it too.
324 posted on 12/18/2002 1:55:58 PM PST by ffusco
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To: Don Carlos
same guy probably runs to every crawfish boil to eat those miserable things.
325 posted on 12/18/2002 2:05:33 PM PST by ffusco
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To: ffusco
Mmmm... I predict you have had a mullet, and drive a really big p/u w/ KC running lites and a pissing Calvin sticker and listen to CCR when you aren't fixing your mama's trailer. You have tatoos, drink canned beer and yer girlfriend w/ fake nails is saving up for a boob job.

Jeez, where'd ya dig up this old thread from? Just out looking to be offended? Well, to answer you, no, I don't have a mullet. Used to have long hair, but not a mullet. Now I have short hair because I have a desk job. (bleech!) I do drive a really big Ford pick up, but no Calvin sticker. Canned beer? YES! PBR is preferred. In bars I drink longnecks. Tatoos? YES! 5 of 'em. CCR? NO! My screen name is southern rock fer cryin' out loud and CCR don't count. I do like the country music, though. My mamma? No trailer. She actually lives in an apartment in NYC. She's the black sheep of the family for that. My wife? Nothing fake on her.

Anyway, being sterotyped doesn't offend me.

as an American Of Italian decent who lives in Texas I just wanted to show you how degrading it is to stereotype us wops! And BTW We found this country and named it too.

Don't be too offended. It's not just Italians. That big, fat, Greek Wedding movie (the wife made me go see it)almost made me puke. I actually found it quite offensive for reasons that I could start a whole thread over. I just don't find flamboyant displays of ethnicity cute or funny. Sholud I for some reason?

326 posted on 12/21/2002 2:49:10 PM PST by southern rock
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To: stands2reason
Madonna! I hate those awful commercials. And the music, it went from somewhat real Italian, Neapolitan, and Sicilian sensations from the Mob Hits collection, to I don't even know what kind of stuff I heard there last time. I live in Connecticut and my Sicilian-born grandparents cannot stand this place! The only people in there are blacks, "Mirican's", or other people like me who cannot get enough of the salad, breadsticks, and chicken fingers. But, if I wanted REAL Italian food, I'd go to a local restaraunt.. that's what makes living in this part of the country, a truly AUTHENTIC Italian experience.
327 posted on 05/04/2003 7:51:58 PM PDT by gumba1225
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To: stands2reason
All 4 of my grandparents are from Sicily. I know goo authentic Italian cooking.

True, the Olive Garden ain't it, but I still go there occasionally, and I coud find so many more things to be upset about than silly commercials.

Who cares?

328 posted on 05/04/2003 7:57:37 PM PDT by DLfromthedesert
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To: stands2reason
Personally, my husband and I enjoy the Olive Garden. What I have to point out about their "corporate culture" is their waitresses. Waitresses have a very hard job. Olive Garden's "corporate policy" is to have their female employees wear button-down collar shirts WITH A TIE. I think it is very inconsiderate to demand that a woman dress like a man just for an "image." I would wager that a man came up with this dress code -- I couldn't do this to another woman. In fact, next time I go there, I will tell them this.
329 posted on 05/04/2003 8:06:29 PM PDT by GOP_Lady
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To: stands2reason
Sure we are, we just won't eat there. Great shrimp scampi, in your dreams!

In Rochester, its 'Mario's Via Abruzzi'. The OG is for anglos and third or fourth generation Italo-Americans whose ancestors changed their last names.

331 posted on 05/04/2003 8:10:15 PM PDT by AlbionGirl (A kite flies highest against the wind, not with it. - Winston Churchill)
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To: Remole
The wine there was absolutely horrible (Carlo Rossi, $2/liter at Albertsons, is far better). But I did like the food (I'm not hard to please when it comes to simple food)
332 posted on 05/04/2003 8:26:44 PM PDT by xm177e2 (Stalinists, Maoists, Ba'athists, Pacifists: Why are they always on the same side?)
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To: ZULU
sheeeeesh! Throw in a few more swear worrds and this ridiculous squabble over a non-issue will remind me of the fight I just broke up between my two youngest sons (in their teens) over Pop-Tarts.
333 posted on 05/04/2003 10:05:09 PM PDT by ValerieUSA
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To: stands2reason
I would rather eat at Olive Garden than in London.
Believe me, that isn't saying much.
334 posted on 05/04/2003 10:13:27 PM PDT by Lancey Howard
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To: ValerieUSA
Please elucidate.

I don't understand your comment on my comment. I didn't use any "swear words". A Coonhound is a dog used to hunt raccoons, a fine and ancient sport in America. There are many varieties of this breed - Blue Tick, Red Bone, Treeing Walker, etc. The Plott Hound is a variety brought over from Germany and also used to hunt dangerous game like wild boar, mountain lions and bears.

Check it out on a search engine like WebCrawler.

This string arose months ago. Why was it resurrected??
335 posted on 05/05/2003 7:00:54 AM PDT by ZULU
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