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What I am Thankful for this 4th of July
Self | July 3rd, 2003 | Jeff Head

Posted on 07/04/2003 4:19:02 AM PDT by Jeff Head

To my wife, Gail; to my children Katie, Rachel, Becki, Jeff and Jared; to my parents, Lee and Georgia; to my brothers Lee, Greg and Paul and to their families and friends; and to all of my other relatives, friends, neighbors and fellow patriots:

Here's what I am thankful for this July 4th, Independence Day:



GOD

On this Independence Day, first and foremost, I am thankful to and for my God, who has given me life and my free will. I am thankful to and for His Son, Jesus Christ, my Savior, who has marked the path and showed the way regarding how to live my life and use my free will in such a way as to further His plan of salvation, enrich others, live in liberty and to overcome my own weaknesses and mistakes if I will but accept His atonement, repent of those failings, and strive to live as He would live. In doing this, over, and over, and over gain, continually striving to improve as I go, and picking myself up again when I fall, always holding that bright hope before me, I know that I will ultimately hear the one phrase which will make all else worth while in the end, "Well done thou good and faithful servant". Therefore, I am eternally grateful, beyond words for His sacrifice on my behalf to make this possible, and for His Father’s, my Father in Heaven’s, willingness to suffer His Son to go through what it took in the Garden of Gethsemane and on the cross on our behalf.

Beyond this, I am grateful for the gospel of Jesus Christ, which establishes a pattern for life which, if freely accepted and lived, strengthens and liberates all those who are faithful in following it, be they individuals, families, groups, societies or cultures. I am thankful for the very essence of it, which is to love God with all one’s heart, might and mind, to love one’s neighbors as one’s self and to promote and live moral and virtuous lives, to stand up for what is right, to un-ashamedly proclaim it, and to have patience with those seeking to find and learn of it, from where ever they may come.

FAMILY

Second, I am grateful for my wife, Gail and our 25 years together for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, for poorer, for richer, in hard times, in good times, in happy times, in sad times, and in the many joyous times which are meant to stretch for all time and eternity before us. I am grateful for what she has meant, and does mean to me through it all, and as a result of it all. I am thankful beyond measure for what she has gone through in bearing each of our five children and the critical role she has played in rearing them. I am thankful for her efforts, her patience, for her extolling me, persuading me and helping me through my own weaknesses and hard times as well as her own. I am grateful for her brightness, her creativity, her loving heart and sharing soul. I am thankful beyond measure to God and to her that she is my wife and companion through life, including whatever hardships, shortcomings, misunderstandings and difficulties which have arisen, or may yet arise. Of such adversity is born strength and a greater appreciation for the good times and joy we are also blessed to live through.

Third, I am thankful for and to my five children, Katie, Rachel, Becki, Jeff and Jared and all they have taught me about life, true sacrifice and commitment, humility and learning. I am thankful to have been there for each of their births and before that, through their pregnancies where I experienced for myself the miracle of life in the womb, and saw, felt and experienced first hand their individuality, awareness, sensitivities and life ere they were born into this world. I am grateful for the fuller, firmer understanding of, and commitment to, life and liberty those experiences have given me. I am thankful to have watched each grow and experience both joy and trial through their schooling, through fights with school boards and over school text books, through cheerleading, gymnastics, school sports of all types, boyfriends, girlfriends, proms, church dances, learning and performing with various musical instruments (piano, recorder, flute, violin, trumpet, guitar and any others I may have missed), heartbreaks, betrayals and the joy of finding and cultivating good and true friends. In essence, I am thankful for the trials, tribulations, joys and comfort of seeing them each grow, learn and experience life for themselves. Such a rich measure of gratitude and thankfulness can only be appreciated by experiencing it in all of its rich abundance.

I am thankful for the marriages of two of our daughters to two good men and now our two (soon to be three) grandchildren, Braedon and Kyra and the unbelievable, unexpressable joy that has brought.

Next, I am thankful for and to my parents. They nurtured and raised me in an environment and in such a way so as to open my eyes, enrich my understanding and to put me in a position to feel this gratitude and recognize the blessings around me, regardless of whatever adversity. They are dedicated patriots to our constitutional Republic and worthy and committed followers of Jesus Christ, and they have striven to raise their children to do likewise. They are the type of people that are the bedrock foundation of our nation and I thank God each and every day for them, irrespective of whatever minor failings they may have. They have been, and continue to be, true, life long, … no, they are eternal friends, whom I could never fully repay for the gifts they have given to me or the loyalty they have shown to me. May God bless their names and their lives now, and their memories in the future for all they have done for me and each of their children. If I can do half as well as they did, and teach my children to do twice as well as I am doing … then I am content knowing that my children will be among the most productive and worthwhile people I know, because my parents certainly are.

Next, I am thankful for my brothers Lee, Greg and Paul. We were four boys raised out in the country in Texas and we certainly had our share of experiences and difficulties, and as we continue to experience life, as most people, we continue to learn lessons, some painful … yet I know of three solid men I can depend on, whatever else may come, who will support me and give me their best advise … even if I sometimes don’t want to hear it. This is the mark of true friends who set their friend’s, and in this case their brother’s, interest and well being over what might “feel good” at the moment and say and do what needs saying and doing.

Next, I am grateful to and for my ancestors, whose commitment to these same principles have flowed down through the years, and through the blood, and put me in a position to benefit if I will but grasp that opportunity. I am grateful in particular for both sets of my grandparents. They were different in many ways and they came from different backgrounds and cultures, yet all four focused their lives on the same critical goals and taught their children, and their grandchildren, to honor and be committed to God, family and country … particularly this country, the United States of America. As a result of their bloodlines, and the commitment of those who were a part of it, I am honored to be a Son of the American Revolution. I cannot speak of these loved ones who went before without feeling the deepest respect and admiration for their lives and what they wrought. In particular I must send my fondest and most respectful thoughts and wishes to my paternal grandmother, Jewel Darden Head, who was among the most genteel, wise, and steady woman I have ever known and whose patience and commitment to moral principle and virtue blessed all those with whom she came in contact. I am privileged to have known her well and spent some time with her after I reached adulthood and my other grandparents were already beyond this veil, and to have come to know her and take council from her during those, what turned out to be, all too brief visits. I bid her a fond greeting across the veil and though I do not seek to hasten it, yet I look forward to the time when I can be reunited with her and all of my ancestors on the other side of “Jordan” when my time comes to “cross over” … as it will surely come to us all.

COUNTRY

I cannot make such a statement of thankfulness without mentioning the third part of the great triad of Thanksgiving, Country. I am thankful beyond measure to live in a land blessed with the foundational principles of true liberty. Liberty which is based on the absolute recognition of God’s hand, the Creator, in giving us the unalienable rights of life, liberty and free will that serve as the bedrock for this nation. These rights do not derive from any man-made institution, they derive from God. I am thankful for the wise, enlightened patriots who enumerated this to us in the Declaration of Independence, the U.S. Constitution, and the original Bill of Rights. I am thankful for the words and actions of Patrick Henry, George Washington, Nathaniel Hale, John Paul Jones, Paul Revere, Alexander Hamilton, Thomas Jefferson, Samuel Adams, John Adams, “Light Horse” Harry Lee and the countless others who set the example and showed through their very life’s deeds how to defend and maintain our liberties. I urge all to read of and understand them, and to read the words and works these men enumerated.

I am grateful for those original patriots who not only enumerated it, but taught us that those foundational principles were worth fighting for, and sacrificing our very life for to establish and maintain if necessary.
I am grateful and thankful that a measure of this understanding is still alive in this land today. Though it has been (and is being) severally tested and strained, yet the knowledge and recognition is alive and growing amidst the adversity and designs of those who would destroy it. I pray we are all equal to the task, in both the every-day, sometimes mundane, commitments we must make to vigilantly vouchsafe our liberties, and in whatever more serious efforts we may be called on if necessary to maintain our liberties and our way of life for our children and generations yet unborn.

Finally, I am thankful to have been blessed beyond measure with wonderful friends. People whom the good Lord has brought along in the circle of life who have challenged me, strengthened me, supported me and, in short, befriended me. They are too numerous to mention by name, but I am amazed at the richness of their associations and the impact simple virtue and honor can have, not only on those relationships, but by extrapolation, on the life’s of so many other’s as we each go on in the circle of life and share the results of those interactions and associations.

I believe with all my heart that these things, though the details may be somewhat different today, are the same principles upon which our founders and the original colonists who came to this land were thankful for.

From this, I derive simple commitments to dedicate and devote myself to the three foundational entities of God, family and country, and to do so with the principles of virtue, duty and honor. I know, in so doing, though I am certainly imperfect and will stumble along the way, yet, I know that in striving for it I will be a tool for enriching and bettering the lives of those whom I love … to this I am committed above all else, and for this knowledge, these individuals, these principles I am express my gratitude this July 4th.

Jeff Head
Author of: The Dragon's Fury Series
A series about WW III


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KEYWORDS: 4thofjuly; gratitude; independenceday; patriotism; thanks
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I had posted something similar to this a couple of years ago and thought it good to reword it and post it again. gratitude and thanksgiving are always an important part of our well being...and I have much to be grateful for.

I'll be out most of the day but will respond later, when I have a chance to get back on line.

1 posted on 07/04/2003 4:19:03 AM PDT by Jeff Head
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To: joanie-f; Dukie; JohnHuang2; k.trujillo; Travis McGee; Critter; Lurker; harpseal; sneakypete; ...
FYI...my thoughts on this day.
2 posted on 07/04/2003 4:19:46 AM PDT by Jeff Head
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To: Jeff Head
You speak for so many of us here in FR.

... in forum and out.

God's continued blessing on you and yours.

3 posted on 07/04/2003 4:23:20 AM PDT by knarf (A place where anyone can learn anything ... especially that which promotes clear thinking.)
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To: Jeff Head
I am a naturalized American. My family chose to come here in 1962 from South Africa, via Scotland. There is no other country in the world that affords such freedom to succeed or fail if you choose not to excersize your dreams.

I am thankful my father had a vision of what he could do in America and provide a better life for his family.

Next to the birth of my daughter, becoming an American Citizen in 1994 was the most wonderful thing.

God Bless US all...

GRRRRR
4 posted on 07/04/2003 4:33:42 AM PDT by GRRRRR (If the GOP could just send in the Marines against the Demokrats now....)
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To: GRRRRR
GRRRRR, and a fine upstanding citizen you are. Happy 4th and God Bless America, now and forever!
5 posted on 07/04/2003 4:51:02 AM PDT by D. Miles
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To: Jeff Head
Thanks, I needed that. Escpecially after having been threatened yesterday with arrest and jail for throwing my belt on the floor after the seventh time through the metal detector at the court house. The next time I'm going to have to ask the question, "how would you treat the governor". I can get into the federal building with far less hassle.
6 posted on 07/04/2003 5:17:32 AM PDT by wita (truthspeaks@freerepublic.com)
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To: Jeff Head
those are fine thoughts and have a happy AND SAFE 4th of July Jeff....
7 posted on 07/04/2003 5:40:43 AM PDT by TLBSHOW (The Gift is to See the Truth)
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To: Jeff Head
I would like to have a special thanks to the like of Washingotn, Franklin, and more for making this nation possible. Who knew what they were thinking when they created this nation.
8 posted on 07/04/2003 5:59:46 AM PDT by KevinDavis (Let the meek inherit the Earth, the rest of us will explore the stars!)
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To: Jeff Head; All
Good morning Jeff

Think you pretty much said it all (& you said it far better than I ever could)

Happy 4th everyone (-:
9 posted on 07/04/2003 6:04:15 AM PDT by firewalk
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To: Jeff Head
THANKS and Happy 4th of July!
10 posted on 07/04/2003 6:06:47 AM PDT by anniegetyourgun
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To: Jeff Head
God Bless and keep us all.

Happy Birthday America.
11 posted on 07/04/2003 6:09:52 AM PDT by Gabz (anti-smokers = personification of everything wrong in this country)
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To: Jeff Head
thanks for sharing, Jeff.

Happy Independence Day!
12 posted on 07/04/2003 6:22:44 AM PDT by glock rocks (shoot fast. shoot straight. shoot safe. practice. carry. molon labe)
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To: Jeff Head
Well said my friend, keep watch...
13 posted on 07/04/2003 6:29:11 AM PDT by holyh2o
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To: glock rocks
Just something for all to remember....
The 4th of July.
Have you ever wondered what happened to the 56 men who signed the Declaration of
Independence?
Five signers were captured by the British as traitors, and tortured before they died.
Twelve had their homes ransacked and burned. Two lost their sons serving in the Revolutionary
Army; another had two sons captured.
Nine of the 56 fought and died from wounds or hardships of the Revolutionary War.
They signed and they pledged their lives, their fortunes, and their sacred honor.
What kind of men were they?
Twenty-four were lawyers and jurists. Eleven were merchants, nine were farmers and large
plantation owners; men of means, well educated. But they signed the Declaration of
Independence knowing full well that the penalty would be death if they were captured.
Carter Braxton of Virginia, a wealthy planter and trader, saw his ships swept from the seas by the
British Navy. He sold his home and properties to pay his debts, and died in rags.
Thomas McKeam was so hounded by the British that he was forced to move his family almost
constantly. He served in the Congress without pay, and his family was kept in hiding. His
possessions were taken from him, and poverty was his reward.
Vandals or soldiers looted the properties of Dillery, Hall, Clymer, Walton, Gwinnett, Heyward,
Ruttledge, and Middleton.
At the battle of Yorktown, Thomas Nelson Jr, noted that the British General Cornwallis had taken
over the Nelson home for his headquarters.
He quietly urged General George Washington to open fire. The home was destroyed, and Nelson
died bankrupt.
Francis Lewis had his home and properties destroyed. The enemy jailed his wife, and she died
within a few months.
John Hart was driven from his wife's bedside as she was dying. Their 13 children fled for their
lives. His fields and his gristmill were laid to waste. For more than a
year he lived in forests and caves, returning home to find his wife dead
and his children vanished. A few weeks later he died from exhaustion
and a broken heart.
Norris and Livingston suffered similar fates. Such were the stories and
sacrifices of the American Revolution. These were not wild-eyed,
rabble-rousing ruffians. They were soft-spoken men of means and
education. They had security, but they valued liberty more.
Standing tall, straight, and unwavering, they pledged: "For the support
of this declaration, with firm reliance on the protection of the divine providence, we mutually pledge to each other, our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor."
Take a few minutes while enjoying your 4th of July holiday and silently thank these patriots. It's
not much to ask for the price they paid.

14 posted on 07/04/2003 6:30:54 AM PDT by LuvUSA
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To: Jeff Head

15 posted on 07/04/2003 6:41:01 AM PDT by Fiddlstix (~~~ http://www.ourgangnet.net ~~~~~)
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To: wita
I know what you mean, I decided since I was in the area, why not drop in and pay my water bill rather than mail it in.

What a hassel, to add insult to injury, I couldn't understand a word being said to me by the foreigner manning the equipment.
16 posted on 07/04/2003 6:51:34 AM PDT by MissAmericanPie
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To: Jeff Head
Very well said and thanks for this post Jeff.
17 posted on 07/04/2003 7:11:40 AM PDT by Dubya (Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father,but by me)
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To: Jeff Head
I think you have said what most of us feel, Jeff. The only thing we could change is to personalise it for our own individual situations and blessings - which can hardly be named or counted.

The magnificent Founding Fathers and those others who sacrificed so much to bring this great nation into being and keep it free should be especially remembered today. The elegance of their efforts is enshrined in our Declaration of Independence, our Constitution and in their blood which has been shed on countless battlefields.

Most of all, the Lord in His Mercy is to be praised! Without His watchcare over us and the shedding of His blood, we would all now live in spiritual slavery as well as physical bondage. He has made it possible to be freed from both, and right here in this wonderful land, America!

18 posted on 07/04/2003 8:01:43 AM PDT by Gritty
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To: Jeff Head
"From this, I derive simple commitments to dedicate and devote myself to the three foundational entities of God, family and country, and to do so with the principles of virtue, duty and honor."

Bump for the joy of living in a country where this is the ultimate goal of all living therein.

19 posted on 07/04/2003 8:55:37 AM PDT by Dust in the Wind (Pop a cap and make some smoke, pursue an American pastime on Independence Day.)
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To: Jeff Head
How beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing! Hugs!!!
20 posted on 07/04/2003 9:47:28 AM PDT by Alamo-Girl
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