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The Marriage Strike - Why are men reluctant to marry?
Radiofree West Hartford ^ | August 13, 2003 | Wendy McElroy

Posted on 08/13/2003 9:40:36 AM PDT by ddodd3329

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1 posted on 08/13/2003 9:40:37 AM PDT by ddodd3329
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To: Nick Danger
Perhaps of interest.
2 posted on 08/13/2003 9:42:41 AM PDT by Joe Brower (The ultimate result of shielding men from the effects of folly is to fill the world with fools.)
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To: ddodd3329
oh boy. another marriage thread. :>

Can't wait for the lady posters who were married during the Ike administration say how today's wariness by men is nonsense.

3 posted on 08/13/2003 9:43:42 AM PDT by KantianBurke (The Federal govt should be protecting us from terrorists, not handing out goodies)
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To: ddodd3329
Here's why (asbestos suit on)...
men give love for sex
women give sex for love
Guys hear too often from married friends that the "great sex" has stopped, especially after the first child is born and she transitions from friend and lover to mother.
Okay, that's natural... but she should not forget the friend/lover role that brought them together.

And in the 21st century... as loose as morals are... why keep a cow when milk is free?

Wish I were 20 again...

4 posted on 08/13/2003 9:46:43 AM PDT by banjo joe
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To: KantianBurke
LOL
5 posted on 08/13/2003 9:47:15 AM PDT by ladyjane
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To: ddodd3329
The statistic otf 7.6 per 1000 down from 9.8 is meaningless unless you know what percentage of the population is marrying age. I suspect most of this change is demographic. Marriages drop for the same reason that crime dropped in the 90's--the number of men age 16-30 as a percentage of the population declined.

That's the criminal age and the marrying age.

6 posted on 08/13/2003 9:47:35 AM PDT by ModelBreaker
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To: ddodd3329
Gee... I wonder why I'm not married...

Mark
7 posted on 08/13/2003 9:49:02 AM PDT by MarkL (I hate people in general and women in particular! But I'm not bitter.... NO!!!!!)
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To: ddodd3329
I saw a great bumper sticker last week, it said

Why Get Married? Find A Woman You Hate And Buy Her A House!

8 posted on 08/13/2003 9:49:17 AM PDT by patriot_wes
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To: ddodd3329
Good article.
9 posted on 08/13/2003 9:49:20 AM PDT by MonroeDNA (No longshoremen were injured to produce this tagline.)
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To: ddodd3329
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free anyways ?
10 posted on 08/13/2003 9:50:30 AM PDT by John Lenin (Imagine there's no liberals, it's easy if you try)
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To: ddodd3329
Speaking as a woman, who's never been divorced but has divorced female friends, divorce is a pain for the woman, too. But, more importantly, why did men let this happen?

I'll repeat that: why did men let this happen? I'll admit I've not done the research, but it's a pretty safe guess tht when no fault divorce laws were inacted: most law makers were men; most judges were men; most governors were men. Why on earth did men get themselves in this pickle? And, why don't they get themselves out of it?

11 posted on 08/13/2003 9:50:44 AM PDT by FourPeas
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To: ddodd3329
Why are men reluctant to marry?

Like my Grandma always said, why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free?

12 posted on 08/13/2003 9:51:51 AM PDT by Bubba_Leroy
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To: John Lenin
Have you been talking to my Grandma?
13 posted on 08/13/2003 9:52:37 AM PDT by Bubba_Leroy
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To: ddodd3329
Just a small matter, but among the many and growing injustices toward men, is the one where divorced men are forced to pay for illegitimate bastards from the wife's fooling around.

Even after DNA tests prove they aren't the father.
14 posted on 08/13/2003 9:52:55 AM PDT by the gillman@blacklagoon.com (Mean spirited liberals suck!)
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The Marriage Strike - Why are men reluctant to marry?

AKA: Mars Shrugged.

15 posted on 08/13/2003 9:53:01 AM PDT by Mr. Jeeves
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To: Cathryn Crawford
Hello.
16 posted on 08/13/2003 9:54:24 AM PDT by patton (I wish we could all look at the evil of abortion with the pure, honest heart of a child.)
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To: KantianBurke
me, I'm waiting for a polygamy advocate to chime in here..to say he's doing yeoman work..
17 posted on 08/13/2003 9:54:49 AM PDT by ken5050
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To: FourPeas
Cause this man made a BIG mistake as Gov. of CA when he signed into law the FIRST no fault divorce law:


18 posted on 08/13/2003 9:55:20 AM PDT by KantianBurke (The Federal govt should be protecting us from terrorists, not handing out goodies)
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To: ddodd3329
Excellent article and an excellent term for it: "Marriage Strike".

I'm in my late twenties and really do not forsee myself getting married. I've heard too many horror stories.

The only exception might be to a Christian woman who takes marriage seriously. Other than that... [shrug]
19 posted on 08/13/2003 9:55:34 AM PDT by jjm2111
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To: Mr. Jeeves
AKA: Mars Shrugged.

Very Good.

20 posted on 08/13/2003 9:56:46 AM PDT by jjm2111
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